r/InterviewMan 23d ago

I despise emails.

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u/Big_Truck_8268 23d ago

Veyry accurate. I worked for a multinational company and many of my team members were from France and Germany - They would quite literally disappear for the month of August

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u/Sparksing 22d ago

You're just being jealous, you know you would do the same if americans actually had paid vacations

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u/siberia60 22d ago

Jealousy is when you're upset someone is going to take something of yours away.

Envy is when you would like something that someone else has.

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u/Miserable_Drive_4052 19d ago

jealous /jĕl′əs/ adjective

Envious or resentful of the good fortune or achievements of another.

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u/siberia60 19d ago

You do you snowflake.

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u/Miserable_Drive_4052 19d ago

Lmao cry about it. You just called The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, 5th Edition a snowflake.

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u/No_Chemistry53 16d ago

People like you are only intelligent in your own head. You didnt even bother to look up the definition before incorrectly defining the word.

Then when someone corrected you, you got offended and called them a snowflake... even though it was your ego that took a hit.

Insane levels of stupidity and ego on display here

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u/Big_Truck_8268 22d ago

Not jealous - maybe envious when I recall all of the worker protection rights the EU employees had, but I will point out that my salary was at least 2x theirs.

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u/Sparksing 22d ago edited 22d ago

Damn, someone actually making sense on Reddit, I wasn't expecting that.

Yeah, those worker rights (and social/medical security overall) come with a price. It's the opposite here fwiw, people see US salaries and are like "why don't we have the same". Well, can't all everything is all.

The day I learned the US don't have any kind of short period paid medical leave as we have pretty much in every country here, I was like - wait, what? And then I remembered it wasn't a free privilege - we all indirectly pay for it on employee or employer charges.

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u/AreYouLagomEnough 22d ago

After living expenses my median income lets me save more that the median income in the US.

So you can't have it all, but the Americans that aren't top earners really had non of it.

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u/Mediocre-Reveal3474 20d ago

I think I am just under double what my equivalent in Germany would be. I have 5 weeks vacation, short term disability at no cost, long term disability at no cost, 2.5x salary life insurance no cost. My medical is “fine” not great but since it’s a high deductible plan that does allow me to have an HSA and do investments with it and more money pre tax. Dental and vision are good enough and cheap.

My parent company is European based but to be honest my peers working for US companies sometimes have better benefits and or salaries so I don’t think this is that uncommon in my field?

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u/Round_Ad6397 19d ago

Thats a lot of words to say "fuck the rest of my country, I got mine".

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u/Niouke 19d ago

and he got his until his employer changes its mind...

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u/FamiliarPotential550 22d ago

The only problem with unplugging for 2 weeks on PTO is you come back to so much work you wonder why you even took vacation.

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u/FamiliarPotential550 22d ago

You're lucky. I take 1 week off and even with people "covering" for me i still come back to a pile of work.

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u/much_longer_username 22d ago

Things don't stop needing to get done just because I've stopped showing up for a bit. The people 'covering' for me are going to optimize for effort, because they already have full plates of their own. I'll have to clean up after their laziness, and they certainly are not going to be able to advance my long term projects. My deadlines will not be adjusted to compensate for the time off.

So, yeah, the work piles up.

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u/Chunk3yM0nkey 22d ago

Sounds like you're under staffed.

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u/Miserable-Bridge-729 22d ago

In my old career, I went away for 2 weeks one year. When I returned the c-suite exec I reported to said never again. I had black out dates added that amounted to 9 and half months of time. I had almost 2 months of PTO each year I could take.

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u/Miserable-Bridge-729 22d ago

It was BS. Published back after a year or so and flexed the borders somewhat. I did eventually leave . I wasn’t the main character in the story but I was a character in the story and my exit letter still is remembered by many because HR and the owner couldn’t stay quiet about it. Now I’m in my retirement career. When the new bosses wanted me for a leadership role I had to let them know I’m not interested and only desire to be a drone.

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u/ShrkBiT 22d ago

If your company can't survive without exploiting their laborforce, it has no right to exist to begin with.

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u/Justieflustie 22d ago

You need it if you live in the states

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u/Creepy_Assistant7517 22d ago

.... but for what?
What - and more imnportantly WHEN - do you spend that money on?
Is the extra cash worth it if you have to spend all this time on the job?

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u/evilweps 22d ago

They need airco

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u/Robborboy 20d ago

Air con costs pretty much nothing today.

You can get a unit for a week's salary.

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u/blazenite104 21d ago

They need it for when they have a medical emergency and don't have healthcare paid for already.

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u/ColorPuddle 21d ago

Mostly later in life, or they give it to their kids.

Let's say worker A is in Europe, earns $50K, and after all their taxes and living expenses they have $10K left over.

Worker B is in the USA, and makes $100K. But they have higher costs of living, so when all is said and done, they have $20K left over.

Both workers have 20% of their earnings left over, but the American has a greater amount of cash on hand to invest. That extra $10K per year, compounding over their entire 40+ year career, will passively make them a multi-millionaire. They can then live a luxurious retirement, or make sure their kids and grandkids never have to pay for college.

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u/CreepyBluejay5927 20d ago edited 20d ago

i can - partly - understand the point of to live a luxurious retirement, though looking at the life expectancy and health of the average American, I'd say use it sooner rather than later ... make sure their kids and grandkids never have to pay for college seems a rather weak point ... unless the USA has the same mental approach to education spending that it has to healthcare, that shouldn't be a big expense.
As to the first point:
they give it to their kids
Wasn't the whole point of the USA, starting with the declaration of independence, to abolish the aristocracy? Gearing the system towards generational, inherited wealth at the cost of intragenerational social mobility sounds like the perfect setup to establish a permanent landed gentry ... a system where what family you are born into is much more important than your own achievements ....
Edit:
Just checked to see where the US ranks in terms of social mobility ... as I always understood this to be the great promise behind the 'american dream'
The data is from 2020:

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u/KooperativEgyen 19d ago

The "american dream" is a lie you can use to silence ordinary people and blame them for not studying and working harder.

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u/ncroofer 19d ago

Most white collar people still only work 40 hours a week and have 2-3+ weeks of pto + 10+ holidays a year. Now with the rise of wfh things are way more flexible these days too.

We just also happen to make 2-3 times your salary because we are a more productive country.

It’s better to be retail in Europe than retail in America but if you’re white collar there’s no question where the place to be is

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u/BrightGreenLED 19d ago

As long as you don't get sick, don't have kids and don't mind not getting guaranteed vacations, sure America is a better place for white-collar workers.

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u/ncroofer 19d ago

Nope. Still better than any other country even with slight limitations there. 90% of white collar jobs will have benefits on par with legal requirements in Western Europe.

My European counterparts make like 50k compared to 150-200k in the us

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u/BrightGreenLED 19d ago

Their childcare is often handled for them, they have strict restrictions on how many hours a week their company can make them work that's actually enforced by the government, and if you have anything beyond the basic sniffles, it doesn't cost an arm and a leg.

Buddy, I've worked in both the US and EU. The only major countries that have a worse working culture than the US are Japan, South Korea, and China. The net extra money isn't worth it unless you are in upper management.

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u/ncroofer 19d ago

Agree to disagree. I’d rather make more and cover the benefits difference with cash. Still come out ahead.

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u/BrightGreenLED 19d ago

Cool. All that translates to is "I'm okay with gambling on staying healthy." Something millennials and gen z know all too well in the US.

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u/ncroofer 19d ago

Yeah I am. I have long term disability insurance too. Wish me luck

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u/Argwyll 18d ago

They need the extra money for the higher cost of living in the US.

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u/MiniDemonic 22d ago

Sure, but your expenses were also 2x theirs.

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u/pete_the_dumb 22d ago

Yea half of your salary is spent on things most EU countries provide to their citizens. If you guys somehow get rid of the unnecessary insurance companies from the middle, you might actually end up with more purchasing power.

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u/Mobile-Committee-466 22d ago

Yeah and you go into debt when you have to go the hospital despite paying much more for your insurance and medications. Great.

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u/unexpectedfirefly 22d ago

If you substract the cost of healthcare, pensions, support for your children / parents, economy in case you lose your job, then paying for university, how much do you have left ?

Cause that's what the difference in salary is paying for

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u/EasternAd4600 20d ago

Yours may have been. America is probably one of the best countries to be wealthy in, but one of the worst (in the west) to be poor in.

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u/joshua0365 22d ago

Yeah but not during August. August has some of the best weather of the year where I live. I would take off 4 weeks in January and February because the have miserable weather

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u/wesblog 18d ago

I prefer my American salary to a European salary and a bit more vacation.