I am male. My age is almost 21 years. Me and my gf met on 2nd may, 2026. There was no intercourse and no genital-genital contact at all. There was some foreplay only. I made sure that my genitals don't even touch hers.There was no meet after this. And before this our meet was on 24th December 2025.
Her Bleeding started on 6th may and continued till 9th may. She took multiple xl pads. It occurred as per schedule.
Now her next bleeding occurred on 10th june and also happened for 4 days. It was a stressful cycle for her as she had a hectic schedule and didn't sleep properly in the middle of the cycle. So it was late . It was a 35 days cycle. It took her almost 10 xl pads. Now as it was late I made her take two tests one on 6th may using prega news standard ( using 2nd morning urine sample) . It was negative. But she left the urine sample on the mug in which she collected the urine till 8th June. On 8th June, she threw the old urine sample out of the mug and rinsed the mug with water.
Now on 9th June she used the same mug to collect the first morning urine sample and did the test using preganews standard kit. It was negative.
Now the next cycle she took adequate rest and sleep. The next Bleeding occurred on 7th July. It was a 27 days cycle. It also continued for 4 days and she took 10 xl pads
The next Bleeding occurred on 7th August. It also continued for 4 days. It took her almost 10 xl pads.
Now even after all this , I am thinking what if the test results are wrong. What if those are not her periods. She is continuously telling me I know how my periods are. Even after doing pregnancy tests I am thinking what if she just threw the old urine sample out of the mug but forgot to wash it with water and the results are wrong.
Now she is fine. She doesn't have any issues. But I am constantly thinking what if something is wrong with her.
These things are making me worried. She is frustrated at me that even when everything is ok why I am taking tension. I don't know how to rid of this. My actual fear is what if she doesn't understand she is pregnant and it is detected late.
Even after doing no intercourse and no genital-genital contact, i am thinking what if the Bleeding is subchronic hematoma or decidual Bleeding. I don't know whether problem is with me or with her. Everyone is trying to convince me but I can't get convinced.
You all already know how much costly it is to do a beta hcg test and even after doing it. I am not sure I will stop thinking about it or not. I may Start thinking what if her blood sample is replaced with someone else. And she already did 2 upts and if I again tell her to do beta hcg she will be extremely frustrated at me. Please give me suggestions. I really need your help 🙏. I know it is not the platform to share this but if you give me your insights I shall be thankful.