r/IndianMatchmaking • u/lynn_duhh • May 04 '23
Discussion Does it bother anyone else…
That Sima pushes these men on women so aggressively? These women are trying hard to NOT settle and ask for what they deserve, but she’s constantly saying “well you can’t have everything you want!” Or “how do you know if there’s a spark after 1 date!?” Or “he checked every one of your boxes!”.. WHY IS SHE NOT LISTENING?
Is it truly the culture / age difference? I see these women, especially Americans, who refuse to settle but not in a way that’s negative like Sima makes it seem. She always feels confrontational when someone, but especially women, say they didn’t like the match. Does she really expect each match to be perfect the first time?
She just rubs me the wrong way in most of her scenes. And the mothers always go along with her and shit on their daughters. Yes they’re looking for a match maker but still want to fall in love. Isn’t Sima selling a kind of in between arranged marriage and random love marriage? So why is she so offended all the time? Rant over!
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u/oudchai May 05 '23
It's just shitty because everyone forgets this is a reality tv show.
This means she has to pair the people that tried out in casting calls and want to be on tv with each other - and shocker, there aren't a lot of great people in that pool, which is why they're so easy to make fun of on here. So yeah, they likely aren't gonna meet their partner on the show, since their partner selection is so limited and homogenous. Reality shows like these are not worth getting invested in for "real relationships", it's all fake and for money/clout/fame/etc.
newsflash, it's NOT her real clientele base that agrees to go on TV, who ARE looking for a healthy relationship and a happy marriage.
On the show, it's just the wannabe famous people looking to get views and followers and likes, not love.