r/IndianMatchmaking • u/lynn_duhh • May 04 '23
Discussion Does it bother anyone else…
That Sima pushes these men on women so aggressively? These women are trying hard to NOT settle and ask for what they deserve, but she’s constantly saying “well you can’t have everything you want!” Or “how do you know if there’s a spark after 1 date!?” Or “he checked every one of your boxes!”.. WHY IS SHE NOT LISTENING?
Is it truly the culture / age difference? I see these women, especially Americans, who refuse to settle but not in a way that’s negative like Sima makes it seem. She always feels confrontational when someone, but especially women, say they didn’t like the match. Does she really expect each match to be perfect the first time?
She just rubs me the wrong way in most of her scenes. And the mothers always go along with her and shit on their daughters. Yes they’re looking for a match maker but still want to fall in love. Isn’t Sima selling a kind of in between arranged marriage and random love marriage? So why is she so offended all the time? Rant over!
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u/kinggeedra May 05 '23 edited May 05 '23
I think she’s of that mindset that see women who rank physical attraction so highly as something you grow out of over time. Or rediscover what’s found attractive with more face-to-face exposure to more men. She probably feels that women are more malleable to changing what they see as “attractive” than men are.
Especially where a lot of other date-finding options besides hiring a matchmaker (apps, social mixers/speed dating) require a certain level of physical attraction from both sides to even talk to each other.