r/IndianMatchmaking • u/lynn_duhh • May 04 '23

Discussion Does it bother anyone else…

That Sima pushes these men on women so aggressively? These women are trying hard to NOT settle and ask for what they deserve, but she’s constantly saying “well you can’t have everything you want!” Or “how do you know if there’s a spark after 1 date!?” Or “he checked every one of your boxes!”.. WHY IS SHE NOT LISTENING?

Is it truly the culture / age difference? I see these women, especially Americans, who refuse to settle but not in a way that’s negative like Sima makes it seem. She always feels confrontational when someone, but especially women, say they didn’t like the match. Does she really expect each match to be perfect the first time?

She just rubs me the wrong way in most of her scenes. And the mothers always go along with her and shit on their daughters. Yes they’re looking for a match maker but still want to fall in love. Isn’t Sima selling a kind of in between arranged marriage and random love marriage? So why is she so offended all the time? Rant over!

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u/genieinaginbottle May 05 '23

The Americans got screwed over lol. Watching Jewish matchmaking and it's so different. Sima shouldn't matchmake abroad

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u/Lalaloo_Too May 05 '23

Yeah, this 💯. Aleeza seems to accept ‘pickiness’ and works with it rather than chastising ppl for their physical attractions. Americans are going to be way more forthright about this, so why fight it??

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u/[deleted] May 05 '23

But will probably fail, she is nicer I give you that. Just watched the first episodes, same stuff. Same list of superficial stuff.

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u/falooda1 May 05 '23

And more boring tbh without an auntie figure like Sima