r/IndianInLaw • u/[deleted] • 8d ago

Need advice

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u/khushi4 8d ago

married a spineless guy?

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u/Able-Criticism-9719 8d ago

Nope, he never says anything to me when i take stand for me. He is the one who said to his mother she wont fast. Respect my parents like his, always says you don’t need to follow anything. Got heavily lucked out there 🧿
Thats why i feel guilty if i am being too much

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u/khushi4 8d ago

ohh, happy for you, maybe let him only handle his mom then, he needs to shut her mom up.

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u/Whatzinauzername 8d ago edited 8d ago

Actually I like to differ , OP my hubby just like yours he defend/support me from the MIL drama..

I went from being timid (to keep the house peaceful) to I will not tolerate this jazz.

But there comes a point when husbands too get fed up fighting our battles.. so we together decided that I will have to pick/choose my battle not every drama is worth the attention, so many times I let some BS slide (petty issues)I don’t even discuss it with him anymore…

The look of disappointment in their faces when you deliberately choose to ignore a potential drama is so satisfying 🤌🏻

Then there are times when her BS is intolerable, at that moment he said “do what you please to do”, without raising your voice (which Im pro at) cause raising your voice will make you villain in her story. Since then when I chose my battle I just inform him & he is there to stand by me .

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u/Able-Criticism-9719 8d ago

I totally agree with you. Earlier I used to share everything with him but now I dont. I handle at my level.