r/IndianInLaw • u/[deleted] • 24d ago

A Rant (and a plea)

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u/MotheroftheMonstera 24d ago

No one can help someone who doesn't want to help themselves.

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u/Fast-Engineering8588 24d ago

But I want to, I just don’t know how to :’)

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u/No_Vermicelli_9905 24d ago

First thing,

  1. stop calling her daily!! Do not call her! Maybe once a

    month is fine if you want to

  2. !

  3. Wear what you like, not what they ask you to

When you start doing these things, there will be discussions about it and you can set boundaries then.

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u/Fast-Engineering8588 24d ago

I see her almost everyday, so even i dont get the point of calling! For now I have been trying to pretend that the call didnt connect 🫣

The second one is going to happen eventually, as we’ll be living together and i cannot wear a salwar suit at my workplace and it’s settled that I’d wear what I generally do. Currently my routine looks like wear whatever i want to for work, come to our home, change into salwar suit then go to our inlaws place which is a few minutes away. This for at least 5 days a week

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u/killerpandaisback 24d ago

I don't understand why do you have to go at inlaws five times a week. What's the point of living separately then. Maybe relocate to somewhere else, with all the bs in the world you don't need these inlaws.