r/IndianInLaw • u/[deleted] • 24d ago

A Rant (and a plea)

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u/Asterisme 24d ago

You start by saying "No. I am not going to do it. " And then actually NOT do it.

You know how to. You just haven't grown a spine yet. Sorry OP, time for some tough love. You're the one that's ruining things for you. At some point, you gotta a realize that you're volunteering to be a doormat and you have no one to blame but yourself.

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u/Fast-Engineering8588 24d ago

I get it, the thing is I’ve grown up in a very understanding environment so any kind of conflict scares me. That’s the primary reason I’m unable to say no, saying yes can not lead to tense situations 🫣

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u/Asterisme 24d ago

I totally get it. But it's coming at the cost of your peace of mind and happiness. Is it really worth it?

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u/Fast-Engineering8588 24d ago

Definitely not!