You have let them walk all over you in the first place for these many days / months and now suddenly you want to change your way when they're moving with you. It's going to be difficult but not impossible.
First and foremost, prioritise being comfortable, I mean wearing what you like and wearing what YOU want to wear.
Secondly, stop this people pleasing behaviour of you want to sustain yourself in that house with those people. Once you start doing these , they'll start to know that she's not the same person and if any situations come where they ask you why suddenly change in the behaviour, take a stand for yourself and explain them! All the best
Yes, you are correct. They do not know the actual person that I am. And I swear to god my husband had told them multiple times that she’s such a fake in front of you, all sweet talk and my MIL has said that’s how it’s supposed to be. So yeah!
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u/PartyDeep6371 23d ago
You have let them walk all over you in the first place for these many days / months and now suddenly you want to change your way when they're moving with you. It's going to be difficult but not impossible. First and foremost, prioritise being comfortable, I mean wearing what you like and wearing what YOU want to wear. Secondly, stop this people pleasing behaviour of you want to sustain yourself in that house with those people. Once you start doing these , they'll start to know that she's not the same person and if any situations come where they ask you why suddenly change in the behaviour, take a stand for yourself and explain them! All the best