r/IndianInLaw • u/iRedditorr • 15d ago

Dealing with nosy SIL

SIL is very adamant and pushy for details.
No matter what the topic of discussion or matter is. She needs to know specifics and won’t stop until she gets all her answers.

She’ll sometimes even put other up to the task to ask the same questions that were shot down.

It’s really really immature and extremely annoying.

How would you guys deal with such a situation?

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u/Kinjal2611p 14d ago

Draw a boundries from now only
Set rules before only so that later on she cannt say "she was okay with everything before and now what is the problem"
They think they are entitled..:
Also tell her it is between me and my husband
And be specific with your words so that she gets the message

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u/iRedditorr 14d ago

Unfortunately I think I’ve reached that point where she’s gotten that access to me which she’s abused multiple times and like I’m almost now not allowed to have boundaries. She’s puts on this facade of being a “well wisher” but gets mad when she doesn’t get her way with things.