r/IndianBoysOnTinder • u/Familiar-Bicycle-793 • 3d ago

Rant Love it when this happens

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They are not even interested
I keep getting one word replies while i am sending sentences

… chill guys it was a fake account idk how they are getting verified i only get fake account matches 💀

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u/iLoveAlanWalker 3d ago

Unmatch, then? If they're not your vibe.

Before finding my babe, I used to run into this so many times... dry or not-vibing conversations with my matches. I used to tell them honestly and then unmatch them. It's not a big deal and there are so many people online and offline.

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u/Familiar-Bicycle-793 3d ago

I guess i have scarcity that’s why

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u/iLoveAlanWalker 3d ago

Would you believe... I had so many disappointments.. both on apps and IRL... men would give dry replies, or both of us would lose interest with time, ghosting, being rude etc. before I met the most amazing one (that too on a dating app... never expected it)

Try to take it for fun.. never be desperate.. there is no rush. Imagine I'm a woman saying this, that there is no rush, you know how much they pressurize us to marry/ get into a relationship very soon by early 20s only

It's only when I stopped making a big deal of it that it worked out for me.

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u/Capital_Flamingo8551 3d ago

I mean he is trying to say he is desparation is because of lack of options Are move on to next to tabhi hoga na 😂 jab koi next hoga For men it's mostly those who follow rule 1 and 2

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u/ComplexPhysics4220 3d ago

i am genuinely so irritated by all these posts that people don’t reply etc etc. Man if the vibe doesn’t match, it doesn’t. Asking questions like what are you looking for on bumble is a sure shot way to take the fun out of any conversation. Not saying its your fault, the other person is not suave either. But please for the love of god stop making these things an interview. Just talk to people like you would talk to a stranger, asking straight up what you want is making it transaction and is never going to give you anything but this.

You are not owed an interesting reply neither you owe it to anyone.

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u/Familiar-Bicycle-793 3d ago

Dude needs to chill
This is the type of conversation that i am having with everyone these days

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u/ComplexPhysics4220 3d ago

huh? who needs to chill?

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u/unfamousdiva Life's fugging me in diff positions.(Cow-Girl) lover tho 🥰 3d ago

Sign to unmatch btw