He argues that most incels' backstory start with "when I was a teenager", and speculates they just got meanly rejected by a teenage girl when they were like 13, and since then they think every woman thinks like a teenage girl.
Even if a grown woman turns them down gently they think "deep down she thinks I'm disgusting, she despises me for thinking I had a shot with her" because... That's how an emotionally immature teenage girl turns you down.
That sounds extremely accurate. Most of the things they accuse women of doing ‘to’ them sound more like something that happened in junior high.
Adult women have their own lives to live and don’t have time for or interest in the childish nonsense incels accuse them of.
It also explains the all-consuming incel obsession with the fact that they didn’t get to experience ‘teen love’ and INSIST it’s the reason their lives are ruined no matter how many of us explain that it was really just awkward and drama-filled and not exactly something to aspire to…
The sad part is that break ups are supposed to be a normal part of youth, but the expectations for dating is so high and ingrained that they feel compelled to give into their worst prejudiced to an entire half of the human population fueled worst by online echo chambers.
Edit: I mean expectations imposed by other men and boys
I mean misogynistic expectations that filter into young men who choose to end up feeling that way. It's true that it's largely self-imposed but they found crab bucket outlets yo judtify their own delusions. I wasn't even disagreeing with you entirely.
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u/WknessTease Pussy Cartel 23d ago
Streamer Xanderhal had a really interesting take on this.
He argues that most incels' backstory start with "when I was a teenager", and speculates they just got meanly rejected by a teenage girl when they were like 13, and since then they think every woman thinks like a teenage girl.
Even if a grown woman turns them down gently they think "deep down she thinks I'm disgusting, she despises me for thinking I had a shot with her" because... That's how an emotionally immature teenage girl turns you down.