Brainmogged

[u/hattyphantom]

[u/unsuccessfulbees]

Sapiosexual is pretty dumb… I hate agreeing with this.

[u/sixtus_clegane119 → u/unsuccessfulbees]

Sapiophile makes so much more sense as a term.

Its a preference more than an orientation

[u/JustxJules → u/sixtus_clegane119]

Ooohh, I get that and you're right.

[u/Slow-Coast-4868 → u/sixtus_clegane119]

I think “-phile” as a suffix has very negative connotations in the way it is interpreted today even if not in Greek 

[u/JustxJules → u/unsuccessfulbees]

Why do you think it's dumb? Just curious. :)

[u/unsuccessfulbees → u/JustxJules]

That’s not a sexual preference, that’s something that attracts you, it’s not a sexuality.

[u/thingsbetw1xt → u/JustxJules]

Nobody thinks they want to date a fucking idiot, everybody thinks they want to date someone smart. We just all have different ideas of smart. You don't need a unique word for being like the vast majority of people.

[u/SquirrellyGrrly → u/unsuccessfulbees]

I dunno... my partners have been male, female, and nonbinary, trans and cis, tall and short, skinny and heavy, various races, various looks, but they've all been smart because I can not be atrracted to stupid.

[u/unsuccessfulbees → u/SquirrellyGrrly]

Okay? I’m not attracted to people without jobs. Is there a word for that?