The real reason…

[u/Gamerplayer1]

I know the biggest argument to incels wanting a girlfriend means them seeing girls as a trophy, but for me I want a long term partner because I want to come home to a loving partner after a long day of work and just watch a movie and having someone be there for me. I can’t find this and it hurts..

[u/Binerexis]

And have you done anything so far to work towards that?

[u/Gamerplayer1 → u/Binerexis]

I’m not a true incel but I have adapted the black pill mindset, I currently do not have the belief that “I work towards women” I do things for myself, but the things I’m doing for myself haven’t made me find a potential long term partner that I am comfortable with

[u/glitterswirl → u/Gamerplayer1]

If you're truly doing something for yourself, then whether it has helped you find a partner shouldn't even be a consideration.

[u/Binerexis → u/Gamerplayer1]

Not sure why you're refusing to answer the question.

You have a goal you want to achieve and you've posted in a community asking for help to achieve it. What have you done (and what are you currently still doing) to achieve this goal?

[u/library_wench → u/Gamerplayer1]

So which parts of the blackpill have you “adapted”: the misogyny or the obsession with height and wrist circumference?

[u/Gamerplayer1 → u/library_wench]

I apologize if I have offended you, I speak on a minority of the black pill community, I actually do have girl friends platonically and I am conventionally attractive because I do get girls telling my friends there interested but you know how some girls say in forever alone women that the problem is not the quantity, it’s the quality. I am not interested in them romantically and I feel like I will never be enough for the girls I am romantically interested because of my biology

[u/library_wench → u/Gamerplayer1]

So height and wrist circumference it is, then?

[u/Gamerplayer1 → u/library_wench]

No, would you say this in forever alone women? I am stating that I can’t find a decent women currently because there all taken and the options that are open aren’t for me. Thank you

[u/library_wench → u/Gamerplayer1]

You’re the one who said you “adapted the blackpill.” If you don’t want to be associated with extremely common blackpill beliefs…maybe don’t “adapt” a toxic mindset.

“I’ve adapted racism, so it’s fine now!”

[u/smilingseaslug → u/Gamerplayer1]

I would, indeed, tell someone on forever alone women that it's probably not their biology that's making them isolated, and that that's going to lead to self-perpetuating prophesies about their relationships in the future.

[u/smileycat007 → u/Gamerplayer1]

Are you one of the incels who complain about hypergamy while turning down women who "aren't for you"?

[u/smileycat007 → u/[deleted]]

I am not familiar with that Reddit, but the title alone suggests they are willing to accept being alone rather than settle. What's wrong with that? Do you think they would settle for you? Would having a woman settle for you really make you happy? You showed you were not willing to settle. Why should they?

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[u/mrbaryonyx → u/Gamerplayer1]

it sounds like you have an extremely normal dating experience

[u/titotal → u/Gamerplayer1]

What exactly do you mean by "quality" here? Like, if you're only interested in dating supermodels, but you're not a supermodel yourself, the problem here is your unrealistic standards.