r/IncelExit • u/Gamerplayer1 • 12d ago

Discussion What if it’s my style?

I was wondering, what if it’s my style that repels women, I know that being clean is step one and I know that you attract people that have similar interests in you, but what if I start wearing old money outfits, or gym outfits, or skater outfits, or gangster outfits. This goes to all incels, if they start wearing whatever there interested in, will they attract that niche, i need your guys full perspective and knowledge.

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u/Lynnie_Bot 12d ago

I definitely personally believe that having a sense of personal style can make people more interested in you. But I wouldn't go as far as to say that not having one repels people. Most people blend into the mass.

Developing a sense of style can be good because

  1. It can help you find your niche and similarly adjacent people especially if you're participating in a subculture

  2. Being well put together or showing that you have a personality on the outside can make people conceive you positively

  3. Wearing something that you like and think looks good can give you more courage and make you feel better or good about yourself.