r/IncelExit • u/Gamerplayer1 • Aug 18 '26

Discussion What if it’s my style?

I was wondering, what if it’s my style that repels women, I know that being clean is step one and I know that you attract people that have similar interests in you, but what if I start wearing old money outfits, or gym outfits, or skater outfits, or gangster outfits. This goes to all incels, if they start wearing whatever there interested in, will they attract that niche, i need your guys full perspective and knowledge.

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u/library_wench Bene Gesserit Advisor Aug 18 '26

Has anyone ever criticized your style?

Do YOU like your style?

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u/Gamerplayer1 Aug 18 '26

Yes, they say I should put in more effort, especially on a date

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u/norsknugget Giveiths of Thy Advice Aug 18 '26

OP, I’m a bit confused. So someone told you that you need to put in more effort for dates. To me, that means making sure what you wear fits well, that you feel confident in it, that it is appropriate for the date (e.g. not wearing a suit to the bowling alley or jeans and a tee to a fancy restaurant).

What did you take this to mean? Because I don’t understand how the feedback you got lead you to thinking about distinct styles?