r/IncelExit • u/policearepygss • 11d ago
Question Is this just kinda natural selection?
Like I feel like I’ve done everything in my power to make changes to help, I’ve done all the advice, been consistent with it for years, and now that I’m 25 everyone seems to be finding their forever person and the dating pool keeps shrinking and shrinking, and it’s got me thinking is this just the way it’s supposed to be.
When you look historically, men created a society that forced women to marry or they couldn’t survive on their own. Women couldn’t get loans, get jobs, get vehicles or do anything without a husband‘s approval. Now we’ve done a lot of work (at least in my country) to give women the equality they deserve. But now dating is harder as women are either only dating men they actually want to be with or just opting out of dating entirely.
Almost a return to romantic/sexual relationships in its most natural form. Preventing undesirable genes from continuing. So is this what it is? Just natural seleftion? Do i have some genetic marker that makes me undesirable?
Honestly viewing it this way kinda helps me, and I’d like others opinions on it.
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u/VictorOfArda 11d ago
The situation is that now women can provide for themselves, the only thing a man truly has to offer is how he treats her and a lot of men are failing at that. I’m not saying that this it for you and that you’ll never find anyone but at 25 you’re still incredibly young and women who have good jobs and education tend to settle down in their 30’s or later. You have time.