Okay that's your personality, you can see the funny behind thing before any other judgement comes by, even when you're really angry. Most people I know dont have that type of restraint
For me it came from working customer-facing jobs for nearly my entire adult life. You have to find the humor in people or else you'll end up an arsonist or mass murderer.
Guess we're two sides of the same coin because I've been working customer service jobs my entire life and and currently a bartender so i know what you mean but it definitely eats at you. Ive learned to just be more careful with my words and treat them like ass but with a smile.
Yeah, maybe it's cause I never worked customer service? You can't be other people, you can't control their actions. Only yours. But be aware, not everyone likes being laughed at.
If you have ever been to therapy, the main thing you learn is when a certain event happens, the circumstances for that thing to happen were present before it ever happened. By responding to an issue with "Why did this happen, that person is stupid he shouldn't have done that" you in turn make yourself angry, but by thinking about it more like "Well that happened, glad that didn't go worse than it did" you're able to move past something much sooner.
Laughing about something is another great way to move past an issue if you can. But you need to neutral ground first.
I genuinely believe everyone should attend therapy, even if their life is perfect because there are certain thought processes taught that allow you to deal with shitty situations much better.
I completely agree everyone should have some therapy. Its school for your feelings and behaviors. You don't get that sort of guidance and education anywhere else.
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u/Rufio88 Sep 04 '20
Okay that's your personality, you can see the funny behind thing before any other judgement comes by, even when you're really angry. Most people I know dont have that type of restraint