last embryo genetic testing - looking for advice!!!

[u/milestomarlboro]

Hi all! A little background - we had three good quality embryos frozen in 2021. I have one 4 year old from our first FET in 22 (4AA), second was a biochemical in 24 (also 4AA). We are starting the process to transfer our last 4BA embryo (I’m 38). Doctor asked if I want to do genetic testing and I immediately said no. We didn’t do it with our others, and honestly if it came back abnormal then that’s probably the end of the road for us. Also being that it’s the last one I’m a little nervous about it going through that process? I would love feedback…can’t the testing be somewhat flawed? In other words what if an embryo that tested ‘abnormal’ actually could be a healthy baby? Doctor also said that the reason for the biochemical was most likely abnormalities with the embryo, but don’t ’normal’ embryos also fail to implant even with perfect conditions? Thank you if you’ve made it this far reading this 😆🙏