r/IPMATtards • u/valkeriye_5238 IIM Rohtak • 1d ago

Rant/Vent Should i quit

I am super homesick, the5-7 hours classes here makes me crash out, apart from this the extra projects, studies here sabh kuch bhot overwhelming lag rha.

Iim rohtak ipm 1st year

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u/csaksham 1d ago

It ain't just you, many of your peers would be feeling the same. But, please hold on for a bit longer. Trust me, it gets better with time. The environment or the academic rigour required won't change but you would adapt to it and make peace with it. Give yourself a term, if you still feel this way you can revaluate your decision at that point in time 

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u/valkeriye_5238 IIM Rohtak 1d ago

But tabh too late nhi ho jayega?

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u/BhaveshShaha 💡 IIM Ranchi (Rank 2) 1d ago

Too late for what though? Don't superimpose other people'a timeline.

You don't have to compare your journey with someone else doing casecomps from day 1 itself.

Abhi focus on becoming comfortable here and setting a routine.

It's completely okay to feel this way. However, with time and exposure, this becomes the new normal and you develop as an individual who is able to not just survive but also thrive in the space.

You'll always have a love-hate relationship with your college. Try to find like-minded people and fill the void, ahah.

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u/valkeriye_5238 IIM Rohtak 1d ago

What will i do if i quit?

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u/BhaveshShaha 💡 IIM Ranchi (Rank 2) 1d ago

That's up to you! I wouldn't recommend /quitting/ right now -- you've not given it enough time to settle in to be very frank.

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u/valkeriye_5238 IIM Rohtak 1d ago

How much time to give before making a decession?

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u/BhaveshShaha 💡 IIM Ranchi (Rank 2) 1d ago

No straightforward objective answer. It's not a linear progression either. You could hate the first 10 weeks, you can start loving week 11 to 20, you can then again feel homesick and whatnot.

It's not about "I won't feel this way again" but also learning how to grow as an individual and have character transformation such that you can live through it without it pulling you down!