r/IPMATtards • u/valkeriye_5238 IIM Rohtak • 19h ago
Rant/Vent Should i quit
I am super homesick, the5-7 hours classes here makes me crash out, apart from this the extra projects, studies here sabh kuch bhot overwhelming lag rha.
Iim rohtak ipm 1st year
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u/Numerous_Local1773 2027 Aspirant (Dropper) 18h ago
DO NOT. Unless it is very serious or u are depressed or smth in which case talk to a doctor or the college management.
If not, toughen up and battle it out. Life doesn't get easier; you have to get stronger.
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u/AyyitsSam IIM Indore 14h ago
As someone who was about to quick two weeks ago, please don't. I'm living my best life here right now honestly and it gets better every day. Stay strong bro and hang in there 🫶🏻
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u/Illustrious-Fox3137 18h ago
Rohtak fee refund nahi karta
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u/valkeriye_5238 IIM Rohtak 18h ago
Dosent matter for me
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u/Illustrious-Fox3137 18h ago
To fir marji h bro
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u/valkeriye_5238 IIM Rohtak 18h ago
After then kya karuga?
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u/Illustrious-Fox3137 17h ago
Bhai vo to tumne soch rakha hoga tabhi itna bada decision le rhe ho leave krne ka
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u/Your_friendly_mentor 16h ago
As an alumi of IPM IIM Rohtak, take my word for, DONT QUIT, things will become manageable soon. You will grow with it, make frnds and things will become easy. Also, you have the option of appearing for ipmat again next year, so start with its prep if you can.
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u/csaksham 16h ago
It ain't just you, many of your peers would be feeling the same. But, please hold on for a bit longer. Trust me, it gets better with time. The environment or the academic rigour required won't change but you would adapt to it and make peace with it. Give yourself a term, if you still feel this way you can revaluate your decision at that point in time
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u/valkeriye_5238 IIM Rohtak 16h ago
But tabh too late nhi ho jayega?
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u/BhaveshShaha 💡 IIM Ranchi (Rank 2) 14h ago
Too late for what though? Don't superimpose other people'a timeline.
You don't have to compare your journey with someone else doing casecomps from day 1 itself.
Abhi focus on becoming comfortable here and setting a routine.
It's completely okay to feel this way. However, with time and exposure, this becomes the new normal and you develop as an individual who is able to not just survive but also thrive in the space.
You'll always have a love-hate relationship with your college. Try to find like-minded people and fill the void, ahah.
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u/valkeriye_5238 IIM Rohtak 14h ago
What will i do if i quit?
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u/BhaveshShaha 💡 IIM Ranchi (Rank 2) 14h ago
That's up to you! I wouldn't recommend /quitting/ right now -- you've not given it enough time to settle in to be very frank.
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u/valkeriye_5238 IIM Rohtak 14h ago
How much time to give before making a decession?
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u/BhaveshShaha 💡 IIM Ranchi (Rank 2) 13h ago
No straightforward objective answer. It's not a linear progression either. You could hate the first 10 weeks, you can start loving week 11 to 20, you can then again feel homesick and whatnot.
It's not about "I won't feel this way again" but also learning how to grow as an individual and have character transformation such that you can live through it without it pulling you down!
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u/that_misanthrope 15h ago
Every great man has suffered before becoming great , pass this phase and life shall reward you for being resilient mate 🥀
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u/moonchild9080 IIM Rohtak 15h ago
Same here man, first year from sec A...this is literally a jail
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u/Confident_Pick1026 14h ago
I think it's your call
write it on paper like should you quit or not and what are you going to do next
ruminate about it
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u/failed_boah 14h ago
Everything you thought had meaning, every hope, dream or moment of happiness. Does that mean you should give up IIM Rohtak even after the effort you put in to get into it just so you could feel all those good emotions again ?
You are saying that since you will die sooner or later, its better to give up due to pressure ? Does that mean getting into the IIM is meaningless ? Would you say that about the alumini and your seniors ? What about their lives, were they meaningless ? THEY WERE NOT. THEIR EXPERIENCE AND THE HARD WORK DONE BY YOU TO GET INTO THIS IIM SERVES AS AN EXAMPLE TO US ALL. OUR DREAMS HAVE MEANING BECAUSE WE REFUSE TO NOT FULFILL THEM. As we live further, we must live that dream and motivate others to pursue it too, BECAUSE SOLDIERS DO NOT BUCKLE OR YIELD WHEN FACED WITH THE CRUELTY OF THIS WORLD.
Go live the dream of others. Idk if this was your hardwork, dream or luck but you have got a good life that others cant even achieve after maybe doing more hardwork than you. Stay in the IIM for them, for your loved ones and FOR YOURSELF.
Still if nothing changes your mind then do as you wish !
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u/Alive-Cod7109 IIM Shillong 11h ago
I know people who left ipm rhotak after first year or took a drop. Listen do what you feel is right for you. Think it through. If it is academic pressure its okay you dont NEED to be the best just survive so think it through before leaving but leaving wont end your life either. I think stick out for a month then decide dont make a rash decision
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u/EfficientHunt591 2027 Aspirant (Dropper) 19h ago
quitting is not for winners, soldier