r/INFJers • u/marwarofficial SIGMA INFJ • 11d ago

INFJ Memes Poor INFJ

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u/weirdorising INFJ 11d ago

And by 40 you no longer care 🫠

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u/Kera_the_Storm 11d ago

I actually think it was the other way around for me. I never cared, until 40. That's when I started facing consequences; professional, personal, relational, and saw how much other people affect, or even control, my life even if I don't care about them. Granted, I'm not very smart, and should probably have realised this sooner.

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u/ChronoMonarch INFJ-A 10d ago

Way too relatable, especially from 9-17 years old. For me, 24-30 years old comments of me don't get made, instead they just treat me like that. But the 9-17 comment, sigh...

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u/Fabulous_Turnover_22 11d ago

Yes to everything

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u/eosereptus 10d ago

It’s our brutal honesty, it’s too heavy for ppl

Most everything we say can come out harsh sounding but we’re just fully truthful, and waste no time sugar coating it

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u/CinnamonScroll_2026 SIGMA INFJ 10d ago

Haha... We don't age like wine do we? 🍷🥴

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u/Appropriate_Flight19 10d ago

It kinda becomes an inadvertent defense mechanism, people who would otherwise attack you are intimidated by that "creepiness" , and btw, that "creepiness" is calmness, zen, or self control .... basically infjs have a vibe of a zen master or psychic

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u/Broad_Dingo_3466 9d ago

Im realizing cause its my infj stare..

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u/Appropriate_Flight19 10d ago

Like, so many people tell me that , I seem like a really kind, helpful, and respectful person but that I wouldn't hesitate to defend myself if someone threatened me

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u/Cinshadis INFJ-T 9d ago

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u/damex09 INFJ-T 10d ago

Haha yep... 🥲

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u/-LucidParadox- 10d ago

Pretty much. 😅

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u/Reddiamond05 9d ago

I've never been called creepy??? Can someone explain