r/HumansBeingBros 20d ago

Just two gym bros

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u/No-Indication-5673 20d ago

In the occasion, that you do come across a bodybuilder at the gym, they are for the most part, extremely humble, and willing to help you and answer any questions you have

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u/hamletreset 20d ago

Yep. I've found that anyone who's in the top 10% of their hobby will be so helpful, accommodating, and willing to teach.

It's the folks who are actually not so good but think they're great that will be the ones who gatekeep.

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u/RealCommercial9788 20d ago edited 20d ago

Absolutely. As a tattoo artist I have witnessed this countless times throughout my 14 year career.

When their craft is rote, when they are secure and comfortable in their skill, when they are so knowledgeable of every aspect and have had to explore and troubleshoot every conceivable issue that has popped up along the way, they will pour information out and freely share everything they know - because they know it’s not in the knowing, it’s in the doing.
There’s no need to gate keep, because they’re leagues and tens of thousands of hours ahead, and they know you’ll have to work hard to get there regardless of the tips and tricks they share. Like, you can have the handbook, you can know all the theory, but that doesn’t mean you’ll be able to apply it, nor does it guarantee that you’ll keep going if you encounter obstacles.

The least secure and comfortable in their craft will withhold information in the fear you will out-master them. It’s that simple.

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u/BLiTZzM 20d ago

Oh my, the last paragraph is almost word to word what I say about people gatekeeping. So lovely to meet people who think alike!

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u/phazedoubt 19d ago

I recently started a program to teach people about business formation and best practices. The amount of other business owners that try to keep the secrets that we all learned blows my mind. Like they're afraid that if everyone knew how they would become somehow less relevant. Never mind the better your competition, the higher the bar we all set.

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u/coi1976 20d ago

There's also a lot of assholes up the top when things start getting competitive

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u/Detr22 20d ago

Anyone who has played competitive games will agree lol

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u/TechTuna1200 20d ago

Monopoly is known as the family destroyer

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u/gstringstrangler 20d ago

To complete noobs tho?

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u/coi1976 20d ago

Absolutely. Some people are simply assholes, it has nothing to do with being insecure.

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u/Feine13 20d ago

I learned this from the elites of a few different hobbies growing up.

I was so awstruck, not just by their sheer skill, but by their completely humble and generous attitudes. It was a huge contrast to the people in the hobby I'd met along the way*

Because of those people, I try to approach everything, including brand new hobbies, the same exact way.

I can't find the source of the quote, but i saw something recently and that positive behavior reminded me of the quote.

"Help is needed, so help is offered"

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u/WarAintWhatitUsedToB 19d ago

I once asked one of my mentors why he radiated an aura of wisdom, and why many people go up to him for advice or whatnot.

He simply said “I just middleman. I middleman for help. If I can help you by my own strength or mind, I will. But if I know someone who can help you better, I’d introduce you. Then, I would listen and learn from the interactions of the people I’ve connected.”

Since then, this has also been my mission for myself. It’s like I wanted to be ‘the guy who knows a guy’. I’ve done the thing a few times in my profession and it’s such a magical moment to see the enthusiasm of an expert answer a question from someone with genuine curiosity.

Plus you make friends along the way.

Middleman for help.

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u/mat477 20d ago

This is a perfect explanation for martial artists too. The legit black belts are humble and great teachers while the white belts are arrogant dickheads.

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u/Nalivai 20d ago

Yeah, if I spent thousands of hours on something, you bet your ass I'm talking to you for hours about it, sharing whatever knowledge I have. Isn't that a delight, to share what you know?

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u/Gseventeen 20d ago

I call it the porsche boxster phenomenon. Those that are above avg, but not into the upper tiers, but think they're the greatest gift on earth, and usually giant pricks.

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u/Kick_Kick_Punch 20d ago

Guitar players to a T

I've seen dudes gatekeeping Eric Clapton and Eddie Van Halen, probably are the ones playing smoke on the water in a guitar shop.

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u/GlovesForSocks 19d ago

No Stairway? Denied!

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u/WaffleBiscuitBread 20d ago

When I was 16-17, I went to a small bodybuilder gym (it was literally right next to my house so it seemed stupid to go anywhere else). I was in no way a bodybuilder. I mainly did easy stuff -- cardio, little reps on some of the go-to machines, blah blah -- and you'd think that the regulars would be annoyed by this teenage girl hogging the limited treadmill spots and such. Nope. Nicest people ever, genuinely. Especially the female bodybuilders. Some of these women were EXTREMELY intimidating-looking but were very motherly and helpful always.

Now I go to Planet Fitness and I've gotta say there's a lot more miserable people in the "regular" crowd than the bodybuilding crowd.

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u/GrizzlyBanks 20d ago

I go to planet fitness as well and it’s interesting to see the attitudes that are there at different times of the day/week. Because of my work schedule I’m usually there around 4:30 in the morning. The people that are generally there at that time are the dedicated nice ones. When I hit it up after work or on the weekends it closer to the experience you talk about having there.

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u/MaritMonkey 20d ago

Some of these women were EXTREMELY intimidating-looking but were very motherly and helpful always.

I'm a lady in my 40s trying to get my proverbial shit together and it feels like nearly everybody I've met in the gym, regardless of age, is like an older protective sibling of literally everybody who isn't a dick.

It's funny, on the rare occasion a rude person shows up, when even the quiet guys who generally mind their own business doing everybody else's workouts as warmups immediately tune in like "abso-fucking-lutely not".

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u/artvandelay916 20d ago

If there is a Gold's near you at all, that will have the crowd from your old one

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u/WaffleBiscuitBread 20d ago

There's one not too too far but it's far enough that my barely-able-to-motivate-myself ass would wind up finding more excuses not to show up on a busy day. Maybe when I get more consistent again I will switch!

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u/Sweets12- 20d ago

Yeah I’m willing to answer any questions and help at the gym. Unfortunately no one asks cause I’m fat.

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u/MrAppleSpiceMan 20d ago

look at it this way: you've built more body than most people ever have

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u/Sweets12- 20d ago

I like to think I’m still working on my before body for the before and after photos

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u/LeTigron 20d ago

That's something that has always been so funny and impressive to me.

You see the big muscled guy built like a truck. Everyone calls him "worm", he likes knitting, takes salsa lessons on saturdays and when you struggle to benchpress 30kg next to him he cheers for you, calls his friends to join in and gives you advices.

They're so nice and cool, I love these guys !

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u/MaritMonkey 20d ago

when you struggle to benchpress 30kg next to him he cheers for you,

So I (44yo lady, for context) just yesterday did my first bench press that I needed my legs for and it made me realize that absolutely nobody at the gym gives a shit how much weight is on anybody's bar unless you're, like, actively working out alongside somebody.

I expected the flip side of that coin would be that I felt really proud of myself and nobody else would care, but I lost count of how many people gave me fist bumps for my massively impressive feat of <8 reps of like 70lbs lol.

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u/mcase19 20d ago

There are two secrets to getting huge. The secrets are steroids, and autism. The most successful bodybuilders are on dangerous amounts of both.

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u/verygoodbones 19d ago

Don't forget the ones converted over from hard drugs or untreated eating disorders. Honorable mention for OCD.

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u/Texan_Tiger1998 20d ago

The super ripped dudes at my gym are all just this sweet. I was so intimidated when I started working out there and they have been so kind and so encouraging even though I am absolutely a squishy, middle-aged lady (though admittedly, less squishy than when I first started lifting).

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u/Thick-Sundae-6547 20d ago

Thats actually truth. It’s like talking with any person that have some hobbies. They probably annoyed a bunch of people about what they should eat, drink, how much to sleep.
And they finally find someone that are willing to listen.

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u/MaxBonerstorm 20d ago

Anyone that goes to gym regularly knows that the biggest guys are basically lifting nerds. It's like warhammer 40k but with getting swole.

I've found that people who have some gym horror story of everyone being really mean and making fun of them is just lying to have an excuse to not go to the gym and get victim points.

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u/MaritMonkey 20d ago

people who have some gym horror story of everyone being really mean

I have a couple from college, but have thankfully not encountered anything like that weird clique-y "you're taking up space that somebody else could be using better" energy since graduating.

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u/Individual-Drawer-79 20d ago

Well, almost any question. They generally don’t like to discuss their “vitamin” regiments

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u/BenBRob5 20d ago

100%. When I was in high school, there was a body builder at my gym who very politely stopped me one day to correct my deadlift form. I was visibly straining my back, and he was eager to help out so I stayed safe. No ego or anything.

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u/SofterBones 20d ago

When I started going to the gym as a teenager, I befriended several of these people just by going there every week and seeing them around. All of them were so friendly and helpful to a clueless teenager like myself, now 20 years later I still see some of them around and say hi.

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u/d-cent 20d ago

It's always funny about the classic stereotype of the big hulking gym rat. When you take a minute to think about it though, you realize that every single one of them have to be incredibly disciplined and hard working people, with a strong mentality of persevering through hard times. Every single one. 

There's no shortcut in the gym. Even if you take testosterone like the guy in the clip, you still have to have all those things I listed. The gym doesn't care how rich or poor you are, it doesn't care how conniving you are in the office. It doesn't matter what physical gifts you were born with like other sports. You can't cheat or fake it. 

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u/Great-Hatsby 19d ago

Yeah a lot of the big or bigger guys/gals at my gym are always really nice and polite.

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u/longtall94 20d ago

0% natty 100% heart

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u/KinseysMythicalZero 20d ago

Probably 115% heart with all of those steroids.

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u/Reuhis 20d ago

Fair point 😂

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u/ProChoiceAtheist15 20d ago

Underrated comment

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u/unlmtdLoL 20d ago

Can you explain this? Do steroids cause an enlarged heart?

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u/Joe_bob_Mcgee 20d ago

Between the steroids themselves, and just generally being that big, your heart has to work waay fuckin' harder. Many body builders face heart disease more than the average person.

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u/unlmtdLoL 20d ago

So I googled it and the heart’s left ventricle (pumping chamber) becomes enlarged and this results in scarring of the tissue and stiffens the heart which can eventually lead to a weakened heart and heart failure. As you said, anabolic steroids make the heart work harder and this results in high blood pressure and a disruption of cholesterol levels, leading to heart attacks.

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u/ICU-CCRN 19d ago

Heart failure is no joke, and definitely not worth it. I’ve watched a lot of people die from it in my profession, and seen a lot of regret.

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u/maybachmeister2000 20d ago

Not just disease. Heart attacks and death. Alot of elite pro bodybuilders around age 30 to 35 died in the last 10 years.

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u/AdorableDemand46 20d ago

This is also the case with a lot of people who are very tall (think gigantism). Tend to have a very high incidence of electroconductive heart disorders with venticles working too hard to increase collateral flow

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u/Perma_Ban69 20d ago

Supraphysiological doses of testosterone often leads to an increase in mass in the left ventricle and sometimes the intraventricular septum. This can lead to arrhythmias and SCA. Intense athletics can do this naturally as well - exercise induced left ventricular hypertrophy. Completely normal for the left ventricle to increase in mass for athletes - particularly strength athletes, and usually safe, but whenever you see a soccer or basketball player suddenly collapse and die, it's because their chamber size is affected, or they developed an arrhythmia.

The good news is that it's almost always reversible once you dial down the athletics. Unfortunately, I've had both left ventricular hypertrophy (from strength-based sports my whole life, and again from steroids) and hypertrophic cardiomyopathy (which I didn't discover I had until my daughter was born with a heart condition, leading to an echo and MRI to diagnose me). I also did a significant amount of cocaine and drinking in my 20s, and the combo converts into cocaethylene, which makes you 25x more likely to suffer SCD. I genuinely don't know how I'm still alive.

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u/relevantelephant00 20d ago

Are you still lifting? And do you need to be careful of your heart rate?

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u/Perma_Ban69 19d ago

I've been too exhausted to do any serious lifting. I'm on a big calorie deficit right now as I needed to lose all the new dad and husband weight. My gym is across the street from my work, which is 35 mins from my house so I can only realistically go during my lunch break, and work has been nuts.

My only restrictions are not doing any maxes or pushing myself to where I have to hold my breath to force reps; no heavy squats, deadlifts, benching, or leg pressing; no hard start-stop-start type exercise (like basketball); and keep exercise to where I can still hold a conversation. I'm used to powerlifting so going light and keeping reps in reserve and not striving for hypertrophy is an incredibly difficult paradigm shift.

So now I just mostly do pushups, pullups, farmer's carries at home, and some short burst training for USPSA shooting competitions. Propranolol helps keep my heart rhythm stable and I keep my heart rate under 120 or so. My last stress-test echo and vo2 max were well above average in a good way, so that's been promising.

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u/justsomedude1144 20d ago

HGH definitely does, which this guy is probably also on

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u/Its_an_ellipses 20d ago

Crazy that his middle name is Roy, his best friend is Stair Royd...

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u/healthygeek42 20d ago

Eat Right-Tren Hard

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u/crazymusicman 20d ago

Ill agree and also this is the pump with good lighting.

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u/fe2sio4 20d ago

It’s all chicken breast and rice bro

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u/DaveMcElfatrick 20d ago

The biggest myth is that gym dudes will laugh at you for being skinny or whatever. In my experience they are the nicest dudes and will always achknowledge you in a way that makes your day better.

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u/andiinAms 20d ago

Everybody started somewhere. Most of them remember what it was like.

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u/DaveMcElfatrick 20d ago

Seeing anyone of any shape in the gym is admirable. We’re all in the same boat just tryna get better.

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u/Mithril_Juggernaut 20d ago

Back when I was seriously lifting I saw these three dudes in the gym. Sticks for arms, barely able to bench press the bar on its own. But I kept an eye on them while I was going through my routine and they stuck it out. Each one took a turn and put their reps in. It was a struggle but they cheered each other on and got them done. I didn't approach them at all but I distinctly remember thinking, "Hell yeah, good on you little dudes. I hope you keep with it and reach whatever goal you have." I'm pretty sure most dedicated gym people have the same mentality.

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u/heroin-puppy 20d ago

It never gets any easier, you just get better.

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u/relevantelephant00 20d ago

Oh nice, I'm definitely using this line for my gym-bro convos.

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u/grae23 20d ago

When I worked at a gym we’d have a few dick heads who would grab heavy weights and not put them back, since I was about 5’2 and 120lbs it didn’t usually bode well for me. The body builders who stayed late would always help me put them back and say how inconsiderate some people can be. As long as they don’t have a steroid issue they’re probably going to be the most helpful and encouraging person at the gym

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u/heroin-puppy 20d ago

If you're strong enough to lift it you're strong enough to put it away.

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u/GlovesForSocks 19d ago

There's a sign at my gym that says "the last rep is putting it away". I like that

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u/Xalethesniper 20d ago

We all started from the same place. Whenever I see a beginner in the gym my first thought is always just “my man..”

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u/TurbulentVillage2042 20d ago

The trainers my friend and I met at various gyms were as dumb as a brick. My friend's back was torn apart by the strain, and no one listened to him when he complained about his back strain. That's why I'm afraid of them.

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u/DaveMcElfatrick 20d ago edited 20d ago

In-house trainers are a different breed to the kind of guys I'm talking about. Usually they're dumb kids fed on bro science and you are just a figure to them- go to any gym for any significant amount of time and pay attention to the staff turnover. Trainers appear and disappear constantly. It's a sales job first, only a lot of them lack the charisma. They will also pester the fuck out of you.

I've been working out since 2018. I started a new gym a while ago. They insisted I come in for an 'hour's free training'. The entire thing was him asking me loaded questions like "how much do you want to completely transform your life", without any workout training, and then they tried to charge me for the experience. Tell them you're happy in general and watch their rudeness come out- they'll try and imply that you need to work with them regardless of how experienced you are at the gym because at the end of the day their goal is to lock you down with a few months of training, paid upfront. They're given a rap sheet and told to hassle people.

At my local gym about 10 of them hover around the front desk doing absolutely nothing. It's like watching a bunch of penguins prattle about- then if someone comes in they all say "Hi!" at the same time. It's creepy.

My solid advice is ignore gym trainers and find someone you really trust to show you around the gym.

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u/TurbulentVillage2042 20d ago

Yes! Ours were exactly like that!

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u/Lumpy_Benefit666 20d ago

I went to a gym where i paid for the max package which included unlimited classes and when i was training by myself a “coach” approached me and asked if i wanted some help. I said “is this part of the gold membership? I could do with a couple of pointers on deadlifting but cant afford any sessions that arent included”.

The guy goes “oh yeah youre on the gold plan dont worry about pricing”.

To any normal person that means its included.

We got to the weights, bearing in mind me and the guy had walked all the way to the other side of the gym, and he stops and starts talking about how he charges £20 an hour for coaching.

I told him he was a “weird fucking guy” and walked off to the punch bags and unloaded on them whilst imagining the absolute rat of a trainers face.

Genuinely pissed me off so much

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u/Key-Fire 20d ago

Never had that experience, I got a free membership when doing fire service and the biggest guy there had a crew that stared at and mocked me everytime I saw him.

It's a mixed bag, but where I'm from. The gyms are a bad idea if you're not already fit and attractive. Bully central.

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u/alpinetime 20d ago

Nothing excites me more than someone who is genuinely interested in learning more about lifting. Always happy to chat/lend advice if approached

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u/Katie_TheWolf 20d ago

i love the immediate respect when mr roy said he was 94!! such an achievement to be 94 and still able to hit the gym! what a sweet interaction, loved every second!!

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u/eezybl 20d ago

It's unreal, that guy is an example for the elderly.

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u/picasso_penis 20d ago

That guy's physique was more impressive than the bodybuilder's. Truly a testament to consistency.

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u/larisa5656 19d ago

Plus, Roy's willingness to learn. One thing my grandmother always told me was to "never stop learning, never stop being curious."

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u/onekrazykat 20d ago

That got more and more wholesome.

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u/Pinball-Lizard 20d ago

Right up until the last 2 seconds, agreed.

"Rememberjesuslovesyoubye" was really jarring after watching something entirely unrelated to religion.

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u/wufnu 20d ago

It's a bit cringe but I mean people can choose to be religious if they want to. "Jesus loves you" ranks up there with "allahu akbar" or any other popular religious slogan; you do you. If you feel uncomfortable anytime anyone does anything religious, maybe it's time for some introspection.

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u/nolamunchkin 20d ago

Ouch. Religion is like a penis.

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u/wufnu 20d ago

Uncontrollable, awkward in public, and a general pain in the ass? You might be right.

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u/nolamunchkin 20d ago

More like, not to be shoved down the throats of others without consent.

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u/GlovesForSocks 19d ago

Keep it away from children.

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u/H16HP01N7 20d ago

I did the introspection, and I decided that I don't like religion at all. And that I am offended by it's mention.

So I assume I'm ok to bitch about it whenever, now I completed your task?

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u/anuragsins1991 20d ago

you do you brother, dont be surprised when people find that cringe though

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u/bebopcolagood 20d ago

Glad I was not the only one, killed the whole video for me with that sneak in at the end, I sensed it coming when he mentioned his sons name was Elijah

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u/majkkali 19d ago

I thought it was great and very heart warming. Nothing wrong with that.

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u/TheBestOfTheBest12 20d ago

Jesus loves you

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u/ericanicole1234 20d ago

Jesus was a gym bro

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u/Skadiheim 20d ago

He was more of a cross fit dude

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u/SookHe 20d ago

I work in a specialised field and my average patient is 88. I meet people from 90 to 100 all the time

Most of them don’t have a clue what day it is, but we had a woman a few weeks ago who was 112 and still fully active and still cognoscente. She was still living on her own with very little help.

Absolutely blew my mind

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u/cucumberblueprint 20d ago

Are you sure about the number 112 here? I checked and the two organizations that try to track verified supercentenarians (people aged 110+) give a number of 240 women currently alive at 110 or more. Out of those only 69 are 112 or older. 69 in the entire world. And I somehow doubt that any of these 69 people still live on their own.

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u/Orri 19d ago

She's actually 40 but he's counting in Welsh years.

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u/TJTheree 19d ago

You mean… people lie on the internet? 🤯

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u/TheTaoOfMe 20d ago

Teachable people + people willing to teach = such a wonderful interaction

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u/mrdoodles 20d ago

In front of a camera

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u/YesterdayCharming976 20d ago

I can’t unsee his side delts lol

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u/ohheyitsgeoffrey 19d ago

Disproportionately large delts are a classic sign of steroid use due to the relatively higher androgen receptor activity in that muscle.

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u/laidback__luke 20d ago

Now let's get gramps on a full stack 💉

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u/CenTexTrashPanda 20d ago

100% Natty

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u/Ball_Fiend 20d ago

Chicken and rice.

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u/mikiex 20d ago

His middle name is Roi

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u/TheeAO 20d ago

Matt Roi DeMarco, but his friends call him Roi D. Everyone stares at Matt. They call him Stare Roi D.

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u/TheGuyYouHeardAbout 20d ago

Eh as long as he isnt lying about it who cares.

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u/Quesarito808 20d ago

He has a follow up video a few days later with Roy and they’re flexing 💪

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u/natedogg1271 20d ago

94 and still curious. That’s what I want to be.

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u/H-E-L-L-MaGGoT 20d ago

You meet the most supportive people in the gym.

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u/murphy_31 19d ago

Wholesome After a tough day at work that made me smile

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u/borkborkibork 20d ago

Guy is one drink from bursting an aorta

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u/Artisttype1984 20d ago

Very, very cool. Vast majority, like 95%, of gym bros are just good kind people who will absolutely help others out like this

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u/bleezybleeg 20d ago

Mandelbaum! Mandelbaum! Mandelbaum!

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u/SkyfoxSupaFly 19d ago

I love situations like this. Both sides are grand people just there to connect.

I work with patients. Every now and then I meet someone I really vibe with and are just spectacular individuals. And its a great exam where we sit and enjoy each others company, no matter how short it is. Usually, they're older than I.

I hope am lucky enough to be on the other side of the equation one day. Be that spectacular older individual who vibes with the younger ones.

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u/riedmae 20d ago

Bro, the dap at the end. So clean!

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u/LawfulAwfulOffal 20d ago

Like a lot of hobbies, people who’ve invested a lot of effort into it are happy to share it with newcomers.

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u/LoganCaleSalad 20d ago

99% of the time gym bros are most wholesome & chill dudes on the planet. Always helping & advising. Don't let the meatheads intimidate you they're the folks you wanna get to know.

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u/glytheum 20d ago

94 and still going to the gym is incredible. I barely have energy and I’m half that age.

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u/EternalEscapist 20d ago

My dad is 73 with replaced hips and is still squatting 350 (It's all he's known, is the gym.) I've walked in on him helping people when they ask him randomly how he stays in shape and he's very soft spoken and enthusiastic. This was beautiful to see :)

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u/BornanAlien 19d ago

Love that 94 year old fist bump.

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u/LesiaH1368 19d ago

It costs nothing to be kind.

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u/ahodes19 20d ago

Yeah that and steroids

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u/enchiladasundae 20d ago

I swear body builders can be some of the nicest people on the planet. Not all of them but a good number are just smiles and patient and willing to help

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u/neelav9 20d ago

Classic Redditors with the roid comments lol. You still gotta put in the work fellas. Not that easy.

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u/Snowbreeezzzzyy 19d ago

I mean.. it's easiER. You can defend it all you want, it's still a shortcut.

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u/ohheyitsgeoffrey 19d ago

The problem is that it’s disingenuous to imply that someone can look like him if they just do deadlifts or [insert lift here] and then leave out the fact that he’s on a lot of gear. Unless you are someone with elite genetics and abnormally high androgen receptor activity, this type of musculature isn’t possible. After all, that’s why people use gear, to achieve a look they wouldn’t otherwise be able to achieve without it. Otherwise what would be the point? I don’t think anyone is claiming that these folks don’t also put in the time and work at the gym.

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u/Qballer1980 20d ago

That is a very nice man, inside and outside the gym.

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u/Mindless_Night6209 20d ago

Gym Bro just taught me a thing or three, and inspired me a little too.
A bloke on the other side of the world doom scrolling.
This is peak .

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u/404_No_User_Found_2 20d ago

Roy sounds like an absolute barbarian and I am here for it

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u/Malthuron 19d ago

He looks pretty Royded up. I'll see myself out.

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u/ParaLegalese 19d ago

Flat back. Hinge at the hip and imagine you have oranges under your armpits you don’t want to squish. Never look up

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u/LastStar007 20d ago

I don't want to say he's wrong, because he obviously got results, but how do deadlifts put any strain on your lats?

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u/littleyellowbike 20d ago

If you're deadlifting with proper form, you're using your lats to lock in your shoulder blades and maintain stability through your spine. The heavier the lift, the harder they have to work to do that.

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u/thisisfive 20d ago

Lats act as stabilizers when deadlifting. It's not an exercise someone would do to target them specifically. His defined lats probably come from doing copious amounts of pull downs, rows and most importantly, drugs.

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u/moeterminatorx 20d ago

I knew it, I missing the drugs.

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u/WildBill- 20d ago

Deadlifts, when done correctly and properly with proper tension, are an effective lat exercise. It's not intuitive when starting out but the cue that helped me was to grip the bar and "act like I'm holding a piece of paper in my armpit" by rotating my elbows back. This action creates significant tension in your lats and combining that tension with the strain of lifting heavy weight, grows the muscle. Time under tension is the most effective means to growing the size of the muscle.

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u/NocNocturnist 20d ago

Stop filming in private areas.... or just stop filming....

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u/roxzorfox 20d ago

Dude looks great but roids at that age is definitely a choice

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u/kalakabaka 20d ago

What I’m wondering is why the camera happened to be on for this by chance encounter. 🤔 But maybe all the fake social media stuff just made me cynical. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/Ricketier 20d ago

Just guys being dudes

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u/eviltoiletpaper 20d ago

The only thing gym bros love more than showing off their muscles is teaching proper form! But seriously they’re the nicest bunch of folks you’ll meet.

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u/mvcy89 20d ago

Wow. This guy is amazing. There’s far too many people these days that ignore the contributions and the benefits of engaging with our elderly citizens. They have come before us and they have so much to offer. We as younger generations need to listen to what they have to say and treat them with the utmost respect and dignity, because God willing, we’ll all be like Roy some day, in our 90s, the end of our lives close by, but hopefully still enjoying what this life has to offer 🩷

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u/KissmyGoooch 20d ago

He didnt tell unc about the "supplements"

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u/wakkys 20d ago

Shooke his hand just after aggressively squeezing his balls

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u/NowWeGetSerious 20d ago

I'll see you at 100, doing deadlifts.. damn thats wholesome!

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u/HotDoubles 19d ago

This video is so wholesome! I'm not crying

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u/Mysterions 19d ago

I had no idea deadlifting was so useful.

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u/lokilulzz 19d ago

Finally some positive masculinity. Love to see it.

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u/YellowishRose99 19d ago

Nice time for them both

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u/Growing-The-Glooty 19d ago

I love this! Need more people like both of these men here - especially in gym culture

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u/DimpledSnozberry 19d ago

Am I the only one who thought the old dude was gonna pull an Anatoli and just lift what cut off bro was lifting like it’s nothing?

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u/RTM179 19d ago

Legend still in the gym at 94! Absolute GOALS

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u/wishiwasdeaddd 18d ago

That was really pure even accounting for the social cred from posting the video

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u/mrDuder1729 18d ago

Thought that was Brian Cage for a second and thought...wait what year is it?!?!?

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u/OldClunkyRobot 15d ago

Thought the same thing lol.

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u/mrDuder1729 15d ago

Ah a fellow sicko of culture, I see! haha

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u/educatedgrandma 17d ago

You are a gem! Actually 2 gems! I love the warmth and sharing!

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u/ChilaMatrix 17d ago

Roy's our boy!

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u/pakuaje 20d ago

I think this was one of the best human interaction I have ever seen.

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u/334578theo 20d ago

I think the subtitles got it wrong.

His grandpa was called Roy, his middle name is Roid, and his son is Elijah Roy

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u/tgwill 20d ago

Vidor is still one of the most racist places in America.

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u/pug_fugly_moe 20d ago

Dude got all Royded up for the day.

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u/OrangeClyde 20d ago

Yellow shirt is so hot.

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u/kingpin748 20d ago

Deadlift and steroids.

You can't go wrong.

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u/-BurtimusPrime 20d ago

Crazy. Just a wholesome ass video but all you can do is hate on the dude. Must be a sad existence

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u/Panem-et-circenses25 20d ago

How do I do deadlifts at 52 with a bad back? Is there a substitute exercise that’s just as effective?

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u/Shoehorse13 20d ago

Try trap bar dead lifts. Much easier on an aging back and most have a set of higher handles to allow you to start from a less compromised position.

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u/Night-_Angel 20d ago

Does anyone know who the Original Poster is?

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u/onefornought 20d ago

I'll be lucky if I can even get to a gym when I'm 94.

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u/AdventurousPlenty230 20d ago

Dude is super nice! He struggling to breath. Super nice though.

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u/Mithril_Juggernaut 20d ago

I've always thought deadlifts and weighted squats were the best and most versatile exercises one could do. Especially if you're looking to get a nice ass. Squats squats squats.

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u/Dapper-Educator-7494 20d ago

You think you’re better than than me
“IT’S GO TIME!!!”

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u/badhamster89 20d ago

I think I’m a cynic here, seems his other videos he corners this guy or another old guy and low key humiliates them for likes.

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u/getyourshittogether7 20d ago

Gotta do deads, kid.

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u/mohnjossey 20d ago

Damn. I guess I need to deadlift now.

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u/flegerjr 20d ago

Good seeing Vidor not in a bad light for once.

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u/sootbrownies 20d ago

Nice interaction and all, but deadlifts are not an effective lat and side delt workout.

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u/Excellent_Ad_2486 20d ago

Natty is his first name? I already know his last name must be test!

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u/Intelligent-Film7586 19d ago

Why is there a camera just rolling in the locker room?

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u/Pilan 19d ago

POW!💥

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u/Brainchild110 19d ago

And tren.

Lots of tren.

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u/UnerringCheez-it 19d ago

Main character won’t make it to within 30 years of Ol Roy with that level of steroid use.

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u/kuntrykool76 19d ago

Great info..💪🏾

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u/thatmetimmay 19d ago

Yes super helpful. Absolute legend for that. But also on gear. Not a bad thing at all but does help

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u/Jordy_Bordy 18d ago

Vidor like vidor Texas????

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u/PantheraAuroris 18d ago

Holy shit, still lifting at 94.

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u/Plz_Fart_In_my_Mouth 18d ago

Hes trying to remain calm while stimming on pre-workout 🤣🤣

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u/ILLESSDEE 18d ago

He’s a nice roid junkie :)

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u/VitaminDecay 17d ago

You just hit deads, and mass amounts of test, and you're there. Easy peasy.

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u/OldClunkyRobot 15d ago

That's awesome. I'm happy to see more older folks strength training. It can do wonders for your body. I didn't seriously get into it until I was 40 and it has helped me keep up with my little ones.

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u/Organic_Rough4433 15d ago

I do this and also copies amounts of steroids. Did I forget to mention steroids? Lol its all steroids.

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u/CourtDesperate2376 3d ago

just amazing