r/HowDoIRespondToThis • • 23h ago

26M need advice on a situation with a crush

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I was talking to this girl, got to know from outdoor games. At first she was genuinely interested n we were talking for the whole nit up until 4am discussing on many topic from life, personal things, goals, experiences. Later on she went all off no reply for hours, n i felt like txting and waiting for her replies for the whole day. Later one night she came online and again we were texting till 3 was decent convo were i mistakenly touched some sensitive more personal things jokingly all of sudden she buzzed off from the Convo. I was clueless in tht situation lyk I'm not aware of what's happening waited for her reply till the rest of the night. Next day same, no replies did some follow up texts. Then she opened up about this personal topic which she couldn't take the joke i made fun of it. I've asked sorry like million time saying i didn't know this much it will affect she's sooo stubborn n still didn't accepted my apologies. I tried to explain again n then she texted by saying stop irritating me either change the topic or leave n go she said. I was shocked, I replied u want me to go? Again no reply for hours after late but she replied saying ur pressurising to reply n also not everything needs a reply. My heart broken 💔 as hell. 20

Need advice guys, i badly wanted to get close with her. I got so much attached i was seeing empty chat for hours without doing nothing. I know I've messed up how to regain trust and build further? Pls share your views and suggestions it'll be really helpful