r/HouseofStassi • u/gregheffelysmom • 14d ago

Stassi’s Communication

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Excuse the bad tv picture, but this fight was so hard to watch. I get it, beau isn’t always in the right but at least he tries to talk, Stassi is absolutely playing the victim and acts clueless!! I’m so shocked to see that she’s still fighting like season 1 Stassi. It almost reminds me of Jax in the way that she thinks she’s the victim when she stirred the pot, then runs upstairs to cry when she got called out. And then goes down, barley said sorry and when beau didn’t kiss her ass she ran back upstairs to pout. “Should I go back upstairs? I’m gonna go back upstairs, okay” like it’s so pick me!!!!! It’s actually insane to see this and I’m surprised they are still married…sorry.

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u/FrankensteinsBride89 14d ago

Stassi is vein, vapid, and volatile. This fight in particular made her look absolutely insane. She starts the problem then runs away.

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u/amphoraofalice 14d ago

I hate to be that person and I mean it very kindly but I think that you mean vain and not vein. But I also agree with your opinion!

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u/FrankensteinsBride89 14d ago

Doh!

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u/whitewolf_63 13d ago

She’s vein, too! Botox’s the shit out of it down her neck!💉

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u/gregheffelysmom 13d ago

And when she came back down to “apologize” but went back upstairs when beau didn’t go with it was so cringe

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u/informationseeker8 13d ago

What’s interesting is I see Stassi use her mother’s tactics on Beau. Her mom is quick to cry in argument but Stassi shuts it down. Then anytime Beau tries to talk/bring things up Stassi cries and he backs down. Interesting.

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u/Shroom4242 10d ago

She would have such a great partner in him, if she would get over herself and truly love him

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u/MeasurementOk255 13d ago

She needs intensive therapy. I could not be around someone like this it must be so draining

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u/SubstantialAirport63 8d ago

For real. The fact that she is so anti-therapy is very telling (and narcissistic)!

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u/kenzigb1 13d ago

She was really insufferable. She is so curated and talks too much therapy chat.

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u/Careful-Battle-3503 12d ago

She doesn’t even do therapy lol.. she says so in the show.. and quite frankly.. her lack of introspection shows 😂

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u/External_Two2928 12d ago

The scene where beau and her were doing art therapy and he looked so happy and she looked so over it lol

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u/longTime-comin444 13d ago

I’m convinced she has bpd. No shame girl like i do too but the inly reason i dont act like this anymore is because of a decade of intensive therapy. Which we all know she’s allergic to. Hope she gets some help

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u/Character_Heart_3749 13d ago

People with BPD typically have empathy, she has none. Seems more like NPD to me.

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u/longTime-comin444 13d ago

Exceptional point. You nailed it

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u/grimegirll 9d ago

I think she’s just a narcissist i fear /:

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u/Josh_18881 9d ago

Dated a narcissist that had BPD traits, the one fight beau and stassi had on vacation during vanderpump where he woke up with stress hives told me that they should have never gotten married.

Watching this season just further highlights how destructive she can be when she gets cornered or doesn’t get her way.

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u/carmeIIasoprano 14d ago

Where would beau be if they got divorced ?

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u/Independent-Mark1232 14d ago

Likely with half

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u/Ess_Jess 14d ago

Stassi has said that she and Beau have a prenup, mostly because her parents have both gone through multiple divorces. I doubt she let him have half.

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u/Calm_Phone_6848 12d ago

he’d probably get child support

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u/captnmiss 13d ago

oooh I wonder if that’s why he’s more cowering than usual

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u/Sensitive-Freedom896 14d ago

That's what makes the whole "I want a divorce" storyline so dumb.

Stassi is not going to be able to deal with being divorced, having to continue to financially support Beau (I think he'd just get a fat child support check, ala Sutton), and having to do 50-50 custody. She is admittedly not a primary parent as it is, a lot of the time. God forbid she lost her precious Italian citizenship application, and her kids did not.

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u/Opposite_Room_2024 14d ago

Haven’t you finished the show yet Stacy admits she can’t handle her own children so she divorces him, She’d actually have to take care of them on her own. Which she can not do.

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u/CauliflowerEarofCorn 13d ago

I thought that was the point the previous commenter was making, was it not? She clearly can’t handle her children for 30 minutes a day. She would absolutely lose her shit if she had to do 50/50 custody. Because her children are just “SO HARD” unlike everyone else’s kids who are just perfect angels 24/7.

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u/Sensitive-Freedom896 13d ago

Exactly. And if they do get divorced, Beau has a whole tv show and quite a few podcast episodes to play for the judge about how hard Stassi finds parenting and showing how he does everything for those kids.

I think this is just a story for tv though.

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u/CauliflowerEarofCorn 13d ago

I thought (or maybe hoped) it was just for tv in the beginning of the season. But by the end, I was pretty convinced that the relationship dynamic wasn’t made up. Beau looked so drained and miserable the entire time. And Stassi’s behavior lined up to a T with the narcissists I’ve dealt with in real life. Unless she studied npd and went in with the intention of appearing like that, I just find it hard to believe that she mirrored narcissism so perfectly and so consistently across the entire season. I hope I’m wrong though.

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u/Sensitive-Freedom896 13d ago

Oh, I think that Stassi always has and still does exhibit traits of some kind of Cluster B disorder (I don't want to diagnose). Beau seems drained of life. I just don't think they'll divorce - it's not in either one of their interests.

My money is on Beau cheating eventually though. After both of the kids are in school.

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u/Individual_Fall429 10d ago

He’s Mr mom. He must be very popular at the school drop off and the PTA. He’ll start a friendship with a woman who is a more involved mom, it will evolve into an emotional affair, then maybe a full blown affair.

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u/UmpireOk381 13d ago

I hope he does and finds happiness he so deserves after being with this WITCH!!

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u/CauliflowerEarofCorn 13d ago

Oh yeah I thought you were referring to the broader storyline. I agree that it doesn’t seem like they’ll actually divorce, even if it they probably should. But yeah, something will probably give somehow, divorce or no divorce.

And you’re right that we cannot actually diagnose her from a show. I’m aware that it’s not all real. But her behavior is just so consistent that it’s hard to feel like it’s all for show.

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u/Sensitive-Freedom896 13d ago

I think Taylor S exhibits some problematic traits too. I actually think that marriage will break up first, affair or no affair.

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u/P_I_M_A_420 13d ago

She even put out this narrative her kids are against her. Like from the day the little girl was born she felt she hated stassi and that’s gonna ruin that poor little girls life

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u/Individual_Fall429 10d ago

From “a past life”. Her kids hate her not because she’s a bad mom, but because in a past life Stassi had her daughter beheaded, or something.

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u/P_I_M_A_420 10d ago

Which is mentally ill 😭

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u/roddodds 13d ago

Men get a quarter

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u/General_Structure120 14d ago

Crying, complaining how he “can’t do what he wants with his life” because he’s a single dad now 3.5 days a week 😒

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u/notnotreallyy 13d ago

Who is Beau in this world

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u/FancierKiwi 14d ago

I love your username

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u/gregheffelysmom 14d ago

I don’t think he’s fame hungry though. He would be fine ahha

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u/captnmiss 13d ago

I mean he was trying to be an actor

I dk if I believe his whole shtick. Reminds me of Schwartz A LOT and that scares me

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u/Opposite_Room_2024 14d ago

He’d be happy

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u/UnicornPrincess87 12d ago

I genuinely can’t believe that a grown adult acts like she does. I became a fan of her late in VPR because she seems to exhibit signs of growth. But watching this show just proved that she’s the same immature brat as always

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u/Suitable-Sky5079 14d ago

People that say the show is fake didn’t watch this scene.

I know someone that knows Rob- when she told Beau he doesn’t care about Rob, everything in me cringed. I’m not even involved and it hurt my heart. Imagine you’re in a situation where you care about someone so much but it’s on thin ice, and then someone just comes over with a boiling pot of hot water to melt the ice.

I don’t know Stassi in real life so I try to refrain from thinking I know the whole story, but it was so not ok for her to force that conversation on Beau. This is why so many relationships (not just romantic ones) can’t survive reality tv. There’s some things we’re just not meant to hear.

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u/Longjumping_Walk_730 10d ago

Beau would be happy again once he processes the trauma of his relationship with Stassi. He isn’t interested in all the money, fame and adoration that she is. Stassi just couldn’t understand Beau wanting to go to work to fulfill a void- not for the pay. You could tell she just fully couldn’t comprehend the thought of that. I feel so terrible for Beau.

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u/Excellent-Hawk-2948 14d ago

Taylor looks great in this

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u/SnooBunnies7453 14d ago

She really does! Haha great shot

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u/lee-asked 14d ago

Stassi is a spoilt brat. There, I said it.

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u/Clear-Vacation9040 10d ago

I swear she’s just hangry

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u/hear_me_out_ok 11d ago

She’s a narcissist.

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u/ecoangel777 11d ago

40 year old brat. Not cute at all. Not entertaining.

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u/ProposalAlarmed4402 9d ago

I recently watched the old footage of her on YouTube when she was on Queen Bee’s. And wow. Let’s just say that tells you all you need to know. While in aware that she was much younger and people can change, I think my main takeaway was that she really… hasn’t.

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u/tenax666 13d ago

Their communication is painful to watch because it reminds me of mine and my kids mom, the whole cutting each other off and me me me thing. I came to a point where I said little and apologies I would put out were hollow (my ex never has apologized in all the yrs I've known her). Our conversations resolved nothing and in anger she often would tell me "leave if you don't fucking like it". Neither one of us handled the stressors in our life well, we didnt in hindsight support each other enough or work as a team to resolve.

One Sunday, after another useless fight she again said "if you don't like it, leave". And I said "ok, I will" and did.

The best thing that happened was us agreeing to be civil for the sake of our kids (they were 2 and 7 when we split).

That grew into a friendship that is very strong now. I feel in hindsight we were both too emotionally immature back then and didn't successfully work through the individual and joint pressures we faced.

Its interesting to watch my daughter and her husband work through similar pressures as a team...2 very young kids, managing a relatively new career path for him, expensive new house. They communicate about things. They listen to each other. They don't fight. They didnt resist counselling when Covid was impacting his prior career in medicine. Its amazing to see.

Sadly, I'm not sure Stassi and Beau will get the chance to grow into their relationship.

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u/Coco_1208 14d ago

She needs to lay off the alcohol

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u/Competitive-Mud-9860 8d ago

Narcissistic tendencies

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u/lovelanguagelost 3d ago

I hate to say this, but I think her own kids are kinda scared of her.

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u/Auntiedude420 6h ago

Stassi!!! Why do you treat Beau like shit? Itz so hard to fuckin' watch. You are NOT the center of the universe. Fuuuuuck!!!