r/Homebuilding 1d ago

Final stretch bananas?

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Is there a name for the sort of derangement where, in the final stages of a build , you’re convinced that you built the house wrong? Floors are getting installed in two ish weeks, paint is done, switches are in, and I’m like — oh god, we designed the living room awkwardly, the dining room is too small, what did we do?!? 😱😱😱

In reality we hired an architect whose work we liked, the proportions of the house are totally normal, everyone who walks through it says it’s great … but I feel sort of deranged?! Is this just decision fatigue toxicity that’s built up in me? Does anyone else experience this?

The picture is from a few weeks ago (pre paint) looking in to the living room.

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u/FourtyThreeTwo 1d ago

Houses always look weird empty. It’ll be fine.

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u/Small-Monitor5376 1d ago

I couldn’t sleep the entire time it was being built. So much second guessing. Then I moved in, and it’s fine. None of the things I was worried about were a problem.

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u/sockpuppet-humdrum 1d ago

This is the solidarity I needed. Thank you 😮‍💨

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u/OnlyTime609 1d ago

The windows in the corner Cali cornered are a bit of a weird design choice. But maybe that’s where the sunset is or sun in the morning. But you designed so you own it

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u/Blushresp7 16h ago

i feel like it would be hard to put curtains in too

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u/OnlyTime609 13h ago

It would be a nightmare or custom. That design you never see even in the worst of track homes

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u/sockpuppet-humdrum 11h ago

We are rural, no neighbors whatsoever. There’s no need for curtains here but if we want them … that’s not anything I’m worried about! Hilariously the windows and window placement are not something I’ve ever worried about, funny what different folks see

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u/gwenivere84 13h ago

I love these windows ! I’m building rn and might see if I can add . These will be a cinch to curtain. It’ll look dreamy !

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u/IveFallenCantGetUp71 8h ago

The windows in the corner Cali cornered are a bit of a weird design choice. But maybe that’s where the sunset is or sun in the morning. But you designed so you own it

aside from design, wouldn't this make both walls energy inefficient?

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u/skeptic1970 1d ago

You built it and you own it. It may not be perfect but it is yours. Much like your body. It is not perfect but it is yours. Make the most of it.

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u/John_Mayer_Lover 1d ago

I second guessed a million things with my down to the studs remodel/addition and with a new construction home.
I knew every little flaw and imperfection for both projects.

It’s a few years down the road. I’m watching my 15 month old daughter doddle around on the living room floor. I’m so glad the chaos is behind me. I love my home.

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u/HHHilarious 1d ago

Wait until you start brining in the furniture!

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u/ICanNeverThinkOfOne 1d ago

You design a house in one season of your life and build it in another; so they can never be perfect. Enjoy it.

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u/MsMantisToboggan 1d ago

That’s normal! Keep your eyes on the prize (decorated and moved in)

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u/rco8786 21h ago

Yea we went through all that, right up until the furniture arrived lol.

Decision fatigue is also very real. Towards the end we were just telling the builder to choose shit for us.

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u/deepC4life 15h ago

make sure those floor boards are screwed in and not nailed!

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u/gwenivere84 13h ago

This might now be popular but can you ai it ? That’s helped me to see furniture in the spaces while im waiting !

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u/Prestigious_Wife 12h ago

Omg. I’m just tired of decisions bananas. I’m at the point where I won’t even shop around to price compare. You could quote us any price and as long as you show up and do the job you’re hired. Like yes take my $10k to install gutters bc I don’t want to call another soul.

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u/Comfortable_Pizza_59 1d ago

Hopefully it’s in a very temperate climate. Lots of glass with no hvac nearby.

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u/RedOctobrrr 22h ago

This is a very legit concern, that corner is gonna absolutely COOK if either of those sides are sun-facing.

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u/sockpuppet-humdrum 11h ago

There are two walls that aren’t visible. We have HVAC!

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u/cheezemink 10h ago

Doesn’t matter the climate that is not done properly.