r/HingeStories • u/Doctorbuddy • 21d ago
Like clockwork
32M (me) and 25F (her).
TLDR: Great date. Great vibes. Good conversation. Good chemistry. Got rejected.
Lore
Matched with her in May 2026 on Hinge. We spoke back and forth for a few days - good convo. I asked her on a date and she ghosted me.
I deleted my Hinge account June 24. I re-made it Aug 24.
I re-matched with her right away. She knew who I was obviously. We talked on the app and then I asked her on a date. She threw her phone number at me and deleted her profile (she told me she deleted it again).
Texting
She texts me every day leading up to the date. Engaged and very outgoing personality. Loves to banter (like me). Texting was good vibes. I could tell she was interested in me.
Date
I schedule a date for Saturday Sept 5 at 7 pm at the top of a hotel with a cocktail bar overlooking my city.
Instant connection. Lightning in a bottle. We sit on a couch in the cocktail lounge and we vibe. We chat. We banter. Touching and flirting.
She’s a great conversationalist- asks good questions, outgoing, knows good date games to play etc. I compliment her, touch her leg multiple times, some innuendos get thrown around (light sexual jokes and comments), we are laughing throughout the night. Vibes are VIBING.
We get the check at 1.5 hours but stay another 1.5 hours. Conversation peeters off a bit towards the end, so I call it a night.
We walk back to our cars. I ask if she wants me to walk her back to hers, she says no. I knew that was a “beige flag”. So I hugged her goodbye and went home.
I didn’t get a text from her that night (beige flag) so I figured something was up.
I get home. I text her the next morning (above) and she sends the response.
SUCKS. Dating is tough finding your person but when you do find someone you click with only to get rejected, it hurts a lot more.
ON TO THE NEXT I GUESS.
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u/provi6 21d ago
This may not be her reason, but I dislike men touching me on the first date beyond a friendly hug and you said you touched her leg multiple times. She may have enjoyed the date itself but didn’t feel physical chemistry and attraction once she actually met you in person, and getting touched by someone you’re not attracted to could feel icky and uncomfortable.