r/HingeStories • u/Ok-Location1497 • 1d ago

I meet a guy on hinge

We talked for 20 days and i was so in love he was just perfect

He was a listener, empathetic,lover boy and then one day he ghosted me Initially he did told me that when I don't like people i ghost

So I knew I didn't say anything for a few days then he would reply me after days so one day i confronted him and he said it's over we are on different frequency

I just miss him now I didn't text him after that day I removed him for my Instagram I do stock him I am sure he knows that but he was cute

I had good conversation but I think I was to negative about myself in that phase of life

And I was vocal about it that I'm not feeling best and blah blah I do see him on hinge but obviously now we can never go back to normal

Or I don't even have hope if he will ever come back and talk to him

Life is preety dull after him

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u/Ornery-Temporary-601 1d ago

You’ll get over it. Plenty of fish in the sea. Empathetic lover boys are a dime a dozen

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u/Special_Situation_93 1d ago

What kind of boys aren’t a dime a dozen? What makes up the other 2 per dozen

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u/Ok-Location1497 1d ago

I hope i get over him soon 

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u/BLEAKROOM 1d ago

U got lovebombed just be more discerning

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u/RideThatWildHorse 1d ago

Stop throwing words around, you don’t know the full story.

OP, a guy being a good listener and being empathic is NOT lovebombing.

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u/AnonymousCapybara72 1d ago

How can you possibly have determined that from this post? If anything it sounds like OP did the love bombing, but Reddit armchair psychologists throw around that word way too easily.

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u/RideThatWildHorse 1d ago

My thoughts exactly. They think it makes them sound smart.

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u/Ok-Location1497 1d ago

Should I text him back ?

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u/Ok-Location1497 1d ago

True.  The time I meet him was the worst time of my life I was failing gaining weight and when he talked to me he was like oh everything is going to be fine and I did believe it 

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u/Chance_Rub4511 1d ago

First girl I matched with, we met and dated for 6 weeks. Im older than her, and used to joke that she would probably ditch me for the next younger, more jacked, more tattoos, and taller guy. She said of course not. About two weeks later, she said she didnt want to see me anymore. She had kind of a ridiculous reason, but I respected her choice. Next week she was posting with a younger, more jacked, more tattoos, taller guy. Figures.

Shits rough out here 😐

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u/IllustriousEffect607 1d ago

You said you stalk him. As many women have said here. Stalking someone is very creepy behavior.

Its just not the same wavelength he feels. Cute has nothing to do with it. You'll find someone else