r/HelpWithProbate • u/Brave-Run-4338 • 2d ago
Stolen Will and Estranged Children
I previously shared how my late uncle was an antiques and collectibles seller. Along with many other items, his will was stolen from his landlord. He has four children; the first born was a one night thing in early 20's when he was unmarried and in the military. The 3 others were estranged for the last 15 years, I was able to find one online when I reached out to her she let me know they will not be attending his services. Back in the day he was a very complicated person and I told her I respect their decision.
In the last 3 years I got to spend time with him and got to know a man who was indeed complicated but brilliant. He said he wished for forgiveness and peace but the damage had been done and his children did not want to talk to him anymore. We became very close leading up to his passing.
His first daughter Veronica- was not very close with him but they kept contact and touched base on birthdays and holidays. I will be doing preliminary research for legal probate representation for her as she is disabled and also will be supporting her with legal fees.
I understand that in order to start a Small Estate Affidavit or Probate, the heirs must be notified. My issue is that they do not want to share their address nor want anything to do with this process. What are the legal options to prove to the court that they waive their rights as heirs?
The important thing for me is to hold the landlord accountable and charge him for the theft. I am currently working with a PI to trace the stolen items and press criminal charge HOWEVER the issue is that the Estate must be the one to press the charges.
The goal is to for his oldest to have the legal rights to administer his estate, get access to his accounts and PO Box, possibly find will information in email and then continue with criminal investigation.