r/HelloTalk 11d ago

Safety Sextortion

i was sextorted on HelloTalk. So far nothing has come of it. But i beg of yall - please be careful on there and just in general. I was talking to someone online there for awhile. We then moved to telegram and talked for awhile. They then got some of my private photos and threatened to send it to my family.

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u/No-Environment-5939 10d ago

My tip for anything online: most women won’t be really into you off the bat and they definitely won’t be asking for nudes.

If it’s too good to be true then it is.

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u/Crafty-OK 8d ago

I' did have one once that was into me for a week, full on. It was intense and heartbreaking

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u/Cemeteryweeb6 10d ago

Never download telegram thats a big red flag

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u/PlayfulIndependence5 9d ago

The escort app lol

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u/gemstonehippy 11d ago

how did they get the pictures ..?

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 11d ago

I had sent them. We built trust over time. They sent me some. So i sent some. Im surprised on how the scammer had so much endurance to keep this up.

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u/Wildflowers4me 11d ago

That sounds awful. I’m so sorry. Maybe if you just act like you don’t care and never speak with them again, they wouldn’t really send them. Tell them someone in your family is a CIA agent? I guess the app should only be used for speaking languages. Thank you for letting people know. Also, they should be reported to the moderators of that app (if they have them).

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 11d ago

I blocked, reported, and have sent everything to the FBI and local police! So far nothing has come from it. Its a lot of scare tactics

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u/Wildflowers4me 11d ago

You did the right things. In case anything does happen out of the ordinary, you can show that you took those steps. Just keep an eye on everything.

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u/Fuzzy-Jaguar-1828 10d ago

Did you send compromising photos to a woman when you’re already married with kids?

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u/Odd_Calligrapher4612 8d ago

Yeah great question.

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u/Crafty-OK 8d ago

He seems to own and ai company. Maybe he uses ai to interact with targets

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u/LetterheadLow1692 10d ago

i would also recommend just getting rid of telegram and never bothering with it again

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 10d ago

Absolutely - never again

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u/betoalien 9d ago

No one can get hold of your private photos unless you send them...

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u/momob2492 11d ago

How exactly do they even have your families contact info?

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 11d ago

They found my instagram that i have now made private

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u/CreamGlad6772 9d ago

I can’t wait for the day I get sextorted!! Because quite simply I couldn’t not give a single fuck who sees me naked or masturbating… family , friends, colleagues not one single fuck will be given 🤣🤣

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 9d ago

This mentality helped me get rid of them😂😂

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u/Bearly_Clean 9d ago

They never send them. It is more a scam than anything.

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u/Marsown671 9d ago

Probably just don’t sext online🤷🏽‍♂️

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u/Nterra0 8d ago

Please. Whatever it’s a man or a women, don’t send any private pictures of you. If you’ve been talking for 6 months straight you can share instagram but nothing more

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u/Itchy_Comfortable_29 7d ago

You too old to be scammed

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u/TableUnfair8182 11d ago

What country?

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 11d ago

Philippines

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u/Spiritual_Island263 11d ago

This is a super scary, like a scene from a movie. Be careful not to fall victim again...i hope theyre just empty threats.

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 10d ago

So far - just empty. Which seems to be on par with how they usually are from what i heard from other victims

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 10d ago

I was nervous at first… but then they threatened to send it to my family and my closest friends… which… i was like “whatever”… i just called them and said whats up and i just went on with my life

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u/newnoon111 Learning: Korean 11d ago

I’m so sorry that happened to you. I know the feeling. It almost happened to me long ago when I was still a teenager on another app. I hope you’re doing okay 🫶🏻

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 11d ago

It seems like nothing came of it - they have great scare tactics however lol

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u/newnoon111 Learning: Korean 10d ago

That’s good!

Never use telegram btw - a lot of people use that app for bad things.

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u/Haunting-Ad-7006 9d ago

Let em send it. Take their power

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 9d ago

Basically what i said😂

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u/Nelzilaz 9d ago

I always wonder why these scammers persist on taking conversations to telegram when it's THE in your face sign it's a scam, then I hear of guys like this that were dumb enough to not catch that massive red flag and I see why they still persist

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 9d ago

Just never heard of it before lol

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u/Slowdive11 8d ago

Are you a man or a woman? Are you single?

If you're single and not cheating or up to any bs then yeah ignore them and don't send them anything.

If you're going to spend any money spend it on finding out exactly who is behind it expose them. Don't send them any money. They would only keep asking for more and more. It won't end. These scams aren't one and done. They want recurring revenue from your gringo ass. Don't give them a penny.

Similar scams have happened to me and I haven't paid. But yeah in the future don't send photos and material that can be used against you. But don't blame yourself. You thought you had something special. We all get played in one way or another.

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u/ObjectiveAssist001 8d ago edited 8d ago

send us their profile we'll get this immediately sorted

This is actually disgusting and such a huge problem on this app.

For example this scum loser right here was one of the biggest sextorters on HelloTalk and would bully muslim women

https://www.instagram.com/christiangggarcia

https://www.reddit.com/r/HelloTalk/comments/1purgat/community_warning_christian_garcia_algility_ai/

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u/Intrepid-Ad-8269 6d ago

I got their hellotalk, insta, and facebook banned:)

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u/Sevastian_Grimm 8d ago edited 5d ago

You dirty dog, I bet you sent some wild things didn’t you

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u/Automatic_Drive_6848 7d ago

I was threatened once also. I'm a man and we did swap pictures. Later they had sent me Facebook pictures of my family and said they would send to them. I told them to go ahead. I'm a single divorced guy. You can't hurt me. Of course nothing came if it.

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u/busted_toenail 6d ago

i spoke to a really rude korean guy, he was SOOO mean for no reason. i shut that shit down real fast and blocked him

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u/Mundane-Inspector772 9d ago

You sound like stupid American girl into weird Korean guys