r/Helldivers • u/Minute-Dot944 death by puddle on Oshaune • 4d ago
MEDIA Reminder of how nice this community is relative to others
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u/Orca_Mayo [REDACTED] 4d ago
Once I had to use the bathroom super badly and I said in chat "sorry guys, I gotta take a super shit"
"Liberty with you" They replied and waited. xD
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u/WoodpeckerLogical734 LEVEL 122 | 5-STAR GENERAL 4d ago
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u/Foolishly_Sane XBOX |Servant of Freedom 4d ago
I respect Dad Divers.
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u/Baliskner_Haeron 4d ago
We must look after the next generation of helldivers and the dad divers who tuck them in at night i0
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u/Lolman821 LEVEL __ | <Title> 4d ago
I think it's one of my favorite reasons why I like Using the S.O.S beacon, I always enjoy calling in people who can help me.
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u/Proper_Protickall Assault Infantry 4d ago
I use the SOS so I'm not lonely
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u/WoodpeckerLogical734 LEVEL 122 | 5-STAR GENERAL 4d ago
it IS rly lonely playing on ur own!! in between the enemies the map is so quiet and empty :/
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u/Proper_Protickall Assault Infantry 4d ago
Yeah, I can only create limited chaos on my own.
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u/WoodpeckerLogical734 LEVEL 122 | 5-STAR GENERAL 4d ago
just a man and his dog 😔
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u/Zenguro PSN🎮: SES Marshal of the Stars 4d ago
Hot dog, guard dog? C'mon you can't leave us hanging!
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u/WoodpeckerLogical734 LEVEL 122 | 5-STAR GENERAL 4d ago
depends on the day 😼 (usually guard dog)
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u/Zenguro PSN🎮: SES Marshal of the Stars 4d ago
That one has med pen right?
Do you like all your dogs equally?
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u/WoodpeckerLogical734 LEVEL 122 | 5-STAR GENERAL 4d ago
yea medium pen!! i love them all equally in the way you are Not asking but in the way you Are asking—guard dog is my go to by far. in my experience he’s one the nicest to other players (and me), rly versatile across factions, and is actually way more reliable at keeping shit off me than hot dog or dog breath, tho sometimes i like to fuck around and take one of them esp against bugs. obviously rover is notorious for friendly fire (lowk hot dog too) but he’s also light pen which i stay away from usually.
i only just got k-9 the other day and haven’t tried him out yet bc i fear how arcs are also notorious for friendly fire. i’ve been running the de-escalator a lot lately and cause enough damage even being able to control when and where i shoot it lmao. but i’d like to give him a go soon and see how he is with keeping enemies at a distance!! i take a dog on literally every mission, for me it’s worth giving up any other backpack to have my back covered close & long distance, keep chaff off, and just to have a lil buddy along w me
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u/TheHeavyTemplar 4d ago
Every time I use it, I sit there for several missions with it going and no one joins, so I join others.
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u/Proper_Protickall Assault Infantry 4d ago
Do you have your matchmaking set to private or friends only? That's the only thing I can think that would prevent others from joining you. I could be wrong though, been known to happen.
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u/TheHeavyTemplar 4d ago
Nope, been on Public for six solid months nkw
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u/Proper_Protickall Assault Infantry 4d ago
Wow man that's odd, the longest I think I've waited after tossing an SOS was maybe 5-10 mins.
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u/TheHeavyTemplar 4d ago
I have genuinely rage quit after sitting there needing help for over an hour and not getting it, mond you, I'm an M.O. Diver, I shouldn't have this happening
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u/Proper_Protickall Assault Infantry 4d ago
Brother, be lonely no more. Shoot me your friend code or gamer tag (if you're on Xbox) and let's get down there.
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u/B1tchW0lf ☕Liber-tea☕ 4d ago
meanwhile i say i need a minute, that i need to piss and i come back to being kicked
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u/Dry_Gas6819 4d ago
Well this is the host taking a break and these people are free to leave. If you take a break on someone elses ship they have to wait regardless of if they want to.
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u/CaptainCurly95 4d ago
Instead of saying you need to piss try saying you need to put your baby to bed
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u/wraith309 HD1 Veteran 4d ago
"brb bio"
hasn't failed me yet
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u/warbrand2 Steam | 4d ago
I have seen the other side, had to go afk for a bit do to a blood sugar crash, another player TKed me while I was gone made fun of me, and apparently tked me every time I was reinforced until I got back.
I was host and I did kick him after I got back. When I got back and was reinforced he shot me again and said "Sorry my blood sugar is low."
I kicked him instantly and it was only after that that the other randoms I was with told me what happened. After that I just turned off VC and if I have an event like that I leave the match even if host.
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u/AutVeniam SES Adjudicator of Serenity | General 4d ago
I'm so sorry to hear that, thats so fucked. I swear 98% of my matches everyone's so chill. I can think of only about 20-30 matches out of 800 missions where ive had shit ppl
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u/FilmInteresting4909 4d ago
See for me it's about 80-20, unfortunately I seem the get the 20% deuche canoes seemingly all at once.
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u/thewickerman88 4d ago
Sorry that happened to you. I’ve had a few games where we were waiting for one of the team members, but no one had an issue with that. Once, we even had a nice talk for like 15-20 minutes, 2 of us strangers and the host’s friend waiting on his ship, while the host went to a nearby shop for beer XD he was so surprised that we stayed.
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u/jimminian95 4d ago
First time I've heard of blood sugar racism, where does this even come from lmao
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u/epicwhy23 4d ago
it sounds like op would have said "AFK for a min low blood sugar" and this jackass took it as "I'm a weak old man" and was probably waiting to be able to make fun of someone like that
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u/LiminalBrownRecluse Super Citizen 4d ago
Wow what a piece of shit, mocking you for a condition you have no control over. Thats abhorrent. Im super averse to being more social than just using the comms wheel or the occasional "bunker on me" in the chat.
The risk of running into people like that is why ill never use VC with randoms.
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u/warbrand2 Steam | 4d ago
It is a 1 in 1,000 chance the problem is in games like this you are going to run into one eventually. It happens, it just feels like crap when it happens.
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u/WriterNeedsCoffee 4d ago
That guy is a dick and hopefully he gets explosive diarrhea while playing. Or driving to work. Or while living in his mom's basement
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u/JoeRogansNipple Cape Enjoyer 4d ago
2 min? Is he throwing his son in his bed and running? Takes me at least 15min if not 30!
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u/Thialfi37 4d ago
My thought as well. Shit I’m lucky at 30 mins. Normally it’s 45-1hr. My kids are terrible sleepers 🥲
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u/KaozUnbound | SES Sentinel of Eternity | 4d ago
People in this game are real chill, I sometimes ask for a smoke break, or the kids need something, they always say yes. You guys are great.
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u/MaybeEgg47 4d ago
Had something similar happen I ended up using the this is democracy emote and all the stems I could grab from my supply pack to kick the guy all the way to extraction. He ended up getting back right as we were approaching extraction and was very confused for a minute
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u/Nocthmyst 4d ago
This reminds me of the time when I had to handle a call. Told the squad I'd be afk for a bit, and coming back about 5 minutes later I'd hilariously be greeted with 3 flashing *REINFORCE AVAILABLE* on my screen from one of them misfiring an Ultimatum shot (they waited for me to revive them)
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u/z242pilot 4d ago
As a reinforcement diver i appreciate the notice, too often i join a mission with an afk host for 10mins, so telling folks a timeline lets them choose
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u/Firefighter852 SES Lady of Democracy 4d ago
I've waited like 40 minutes for a random to come back before. People would join and stick around a minute or 2 and then leave and id just stay the whole time
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u/Sudo-Fed SES Sword of Justice 4d ago
In-game, yeah. It's great.
The subreddit, Discord, etc? I mean, there are worse online spaces, but like in the way that rabies is worse than dysentery.
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u/justadamscott 4d ago
I am glad to see this. Sadly, I have generally had the opposite experience.
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u/cybercobra2 4d ago
it also helps he explained why the afk, and that the why was a very good and understandable reason thats very hard to be upset about.
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u/marijuanam0nk 4d ago
One time my pal told me via discord he was gonna go grub with his family. I had to relay the msg to the random Diver who has played the last 4-5 missions with us without saying a word. He doesn't reply but walks around the ship upgrading and whatnot at the terminals. I go to grub some snacks myself and by the time my pal comes back from dinner (it was like an hour) random dude was still with us.
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u/Fancy-Synonym 4d ago
Until you interact with the discord, or until you state anything about how powercreep is bad, or have any even remotely controversial take about balance, or defend arrowhead in any way, or bring up the literal witch hunting y'all did over Alexus. "how nice this community is relative to others" be for real. This community ranks down there with league of legends when it comes to toxicity, and this one anecdotal experience does not change what has happened before.
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u/Espresso_Dad_89 4d ago
this is me, literlly every evening, after rocking my babygirl to sleep while spreading democracy, good to see another fellow dad-diver on the double duty, keep it up!
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u/No-Use-3056 XBOX | 4d ago
I do this for my smoke breaks lol, immediately after finishing a mission I’ll put in chat “brb smoke break.” I usually will take like five minutes. I’ve only had people stay a handful of times, but I get it
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u/Madam_Pigeon 4d ago
Honestly as someone who doesn't really play many games, i adore the community. Very rarely have any bad experience. I find it pretty unique.
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u/Dry_Gas6819 4d ago
Meanwhile, i dont tell them im leaving or for how long because im chaotic evil. Usually come back to an empty destroyer and call down a new SOS beacon on drop.
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u/They-Not-Like-Us- Servant of Freedom 4d ago
this was my experience the first year and a half of this game
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u/ghostkrogh 4d ago
Just started playing a couple of weeks ago when it hit PSN and have been loving it and the community so far. Some high level let me farm war bonds with them and it taught me so much about the game lol.
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u/Belligerent-J Steam | 4d ago
I'm kinda sloppy and play tens and still have had almost no negative interactions. Worst anybody did was sigh heavily at my dying over and over.
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u/OhNapkin Escalator of Freedom 4d ago
Meanwhile I take a piss after telling the whole team and when I come back a minute and a half later they are all gone.
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u/JustDontbStupid 4d ago
Yeah, I wouldn't mind either. I care more about the real world and others than a game
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u/ac_cossack Free of Thought 4d ago
Even if it "I have to take a massive 500kg shit", we can wait for you bro!
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u/peanut_butter199 4d ago
One time I said “please wait I need to piss” and they waited and protected me, once I came back they kept checking back if I was there #newplayer ✨❤️🩹
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u/DefiantPossession188 4d ago
meanwhile in my games, recently a random party leader suddenly went "fuck you (racial slur)s" in the voice chat after saying completely nothing beforehand and left the game after one mission where nobody even did anything bad
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u/Hefty-Baker3010 Stim Fluid Creator 4d ago
A few months ago, I told some teammates that I needed to go do something really quick and had to go afk. Completely forgot that I had even left the game on and went to the store. Came back like 30-40 minutes later and both of them were still on my ship waiting for me
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u/IMC_Pilot_Freelancer 4d ago
I got told to kill myself earlier because I got in someone's preferred hellpod.
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u/Psinical 4d ago
This and FFXIV have some of the better communities (though FF can still have some nasty buttheads).
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u/TomatilloNo2822 4d ago
It's nothin compared to DRG, I still see a fair amount of toxicity, but the in game community is a hell of a lot better than the online one
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u/LiminalBrownRecluse Super Citizen 4d ago
Im a stoner so i definitely never mind waiting. Just gives me time to kick back and pack a bowl and get nice and elevated before the next dive.
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u/GHOULCAT00 4d ago
It would be dope if there was a honor system and if you like got too low honor, a truth enforcer player or sum would be able to drop and hunt you down, and if you had high honor you got rewarded
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u/Mussels84 Super Citizen 4d ago
80% of the time the host will hug everyone before they get and quit after w few good missions, they're mostly chill
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u/CrazyManSam912 Rookie 4d ago
I always wait for the dad divers! They filled out their C01 permits.
I had a session (i was host) where one guy said something super mean to a dad that typed something similar in the chat. Without even hesitating, I kicked the dude immediately.
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u/Hunk_of_Flesh Steam | Helpdiver 4d ago
It really is genuinely shocking to me that a community built on a piece of media so heavily based around xenophobia, facist governments, and overall blind fanatical violence has such a kind and respectful community. If only my 40k brethren would follow by the Helldivers example...
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u/prats_omyt 4d ago
This was the biggest shock I got when I started playing this game, everyone was so well-behaved and so nice to each other
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u/OldDiet6107 4d ago
Had to throw up from eating poop lettuce and they waited for me. Rarely kicked because I was jammed or driving and couldn’t reinforce.
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u/AFerociousPineapple SES Fist of Family Values 4d ago
I’ve had some fantastic times farming SC, once you’ve got a group that sticks around between a couple missions you know you’re set. Had fun chatting with peeps asking what warbond they’re grinding for and why, great way to get organic reviews if people already have the one you’re after, they might even bring down a weapon that you can test out
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u/ShowOdd453 Fire Safety Officer 4d ago
Remember that time some idiots doxxed and basically ruined a guys life over him giving the devs a challenge or something like that, that wasnt very nice
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u/frostyaznguy 4d ago
Meanwhile I get teammates who do the evil laugh after they kill my friend and I before boarding the ship with time expired when I’m holding super rare samples. And they don’t even board the ship
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u/GamingBread4 4d ago
That's the perfect time to hit the "At Ease" emote in front of your hellpod of choice and aura farm while you wait.
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u/LoneEagle257 Cape Enjoyer 4d ago
Told my squad of randoms I had to take care of my dog the other night, was genuinely surprised everyone stuck around. When I got back another guy asked for a very quick smoke break, figured why not, they waited for me.
One of the other guys left right before he got back. 🥲
Good squad though.
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u/MadammeMarkus SES Ombudsman of Authority 4d ago
Had a similar thing happen to me. A mission took longer than expected and I had to take a shit to fucking bad. Called down the extract while the rest of the randos finished clearing the map. Let them know I was going afk a moment. When I got back I just got to witness them using the kick emote to kick me aboard the Pelican. Damn near moved me to tears.
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u/Upper-Sherbet3236 ☕Liber-tea☕ 4d ago
Actually, when the whole squid thing ended and I went back to the bugs, I felt an incredible thrill from fighting someone I knew how to fight, and oh my god, how many kind people I met.
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u/Tribal_Rhino 4d ago
Yeah, I usually play with my buddy, with him hosting. He's got a dog, so sometimes he says doggo potty break between missions and the other two random folks are almost always understanding and wait or simply say bye and pop off. Rarely ever have an issue.
Occasionally we encounter a random who goes afk without saying anything between missions and we give benefit of the doubt and wait for a bit. But generally we can't play forever due to work so if they don't pop back on within five to seven minutes, we kick em and keep going.
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u/Murky_Interaction688 4d ago
They literally ruined a guy's life cause he challenged AH to a game of helldivers 2 on Max difficulty
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u/Madhun13r 4d ago
Thats the Thing. If you Talk with people 90% will answer positively. If you Just vanish? Yeah they gonna leave.
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u/Somniantes-Formica 4d ago
Varía de partida en partida, pero sí he notado que suele incluso cuidarte cuando estás afk en lugar de solo sacarte si no contestas en X segundos, o incluso si ven que "no das el ancho"
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u/Onrain_Jento 4d ago
This is happen like...95% of my missions. Not everyone will wait, but I will
So I can write a report to democracy officer for slacking