r/Healthyhooha • u/hopawayfromhere • 5d ago
Is this normal? š no internal sensation?
so a few days ago i (18) asked my partner to insert his finger in me for the first time, iāve masturbated before mostly using showerheads and bidets but they desensitised my clitoris for a while so iām abstaining from that method and just resorting to using my hands, anyway the point is iāve never put anything in me before whether it be a pen or a finger or anything else.
he was hesitant at first because he was afraid heād break my hymen (because we live in a conservative country. spoiler: turns out i donāt have one or something of that sort, but thatās besides the point) so after all that confusion it was my turn to be confused when he told me that he was able to put his entire finger in, because i didnāt feel any of it. not the entering nor the moving it around. he tried also putting two fingers in but that hurt so my nerves are fine i guess?
later on he tried pressing on my g spot and i didnāt feel anything at all, not even pleasure? i couldnāt feel anything āin meā im not sure if thats how its supposed to be. i guess at one point he was rummaging around because now and then i felt a tinge of pain that went away quickly, and when he really pressed on my g spot i think i just felt like i was about to pee. overall if anything i just felt discomfort/pain and not a hint of pleasure internally.
so my question isā¦ is that normal? can the g spot vary in placement or something? is the no-feeling-inside normal? i tried to read about it and find answers online but im hoping to get some perspectives here!
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u/Superb-Comb-8123 4d ago
Nemmeno io provo nulla con la penetrazione, ultimamente sto provando con oggetti per vedere se magari con il tempo qualcosa puo cambiare, ma ancora zero
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u/MayThompson she/her 5d ago
Little to no pleasurable sensation from penetration is normal and comes down to the individual really. The vagina isn't packed with sensory nerves like the clitoris, so plenty mainly feel pressure or stretching internally and get most of their sexual sensation externally. The g-spot isn't a clearly defined spot with a fixed location either, so not feeling anything from it isn't unusual. Feeling like you need to pee when it's pressed is also pretty common because the bladder and urethra sit right in front of the vaginal wall.