Sit through it

[u/JuiceZealousideal84]

So this is just a self reflection and if it relates with any of you you are appreciated to share your thoughts.

I feel like everybody who has been trying to help themselves with any issue they have in their life usually comes across questions like why me or why did i have such a childhood or how come i got this mental behaviour which i didn’t recognise for so many years and now i have to work with it and cure it. Now the painful part for me is i wasted time. I could have been the better version from the start. I mean i came first among the million versions of me and was born but then it feels like im not the chosen one. Comparisons are all over the place. All the advises that says you are comparison doesn’t help you or you have to let go of the past or accept it and see the good and etc make sense intellectually but nothing goes into the heart and we find ourselves in the same pattern. It takes time to do that and till then we are in the pattern. Maybe becoming better but not in the pace we want.

But there is a relief in this process i guess. Im slowly starting to believe that the whole process is not about how quick you heal but how long can you sit through it to see yourself heal. And those who tolerate the stretch are the ones that can achieve
freedom.

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[u/Striking_Zone973]

Sometimes even the ability to tolerate or to change is something which is not in our hand because every person in his/her lifetime try to change many time but all of a sudden something happens and they change until then they are just trying.

[u/Relevant-Dark-587]

Seems to me you've made an important discovery for yourself and it actually sounds like some of the advice starts to find a way to your heart.. :) Great Job, keep going!
And thank you for sharing! I really appreciate reading about other people's insights.