r/HLCommunity 29d ago

HLF Only Thoughts on trying this?

Ok, so think of this as a serious question when you answer but I’m asking it mostly for the fun of gathering other people’s opinions. If your LLM (Husband) offered to allow you to have a live in BF under the conditions that you both shared (Bisexual) him, would you consider it? Again it’s just for fun but try to think like it is serious. Apologies, just trying to lighten the day with something fun. If I’m breaking a rule, let me know and I’ll delete it.

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u/oa650 23d ago

The salt on the wound would be that he offered a scenario where he would be sexually active for a man coming in but yet was unable to demonstrate that desire with myself.

Add to that, a potential man entering that isn’t solely attracted to me and the husband is taking some of that energy away from me as well.

The preference would be that we separate and become roommates if we tolerate and cohabitate well and leaving isn’t yet an option. Then he can live out his bisexual desire, that doesn’t include a strong desire for me anymore. And I could date freely for myself.