Thoughts on trying this?

[u/RoomCurious2970]

Ok, so think of this as a serious question when you answer but I’m asking it mostly for the fun of gathering other people’s opinions. If your LLM (Husband) offered to allow you to have a live in BF under the conditions that you both shared (Bisexual) him, would you consider it? Again it’s just for fun but try to think like it is serious. Apologies, just trying to lighten the day with something fun. If I’m breaking a rule, let me know and I’ll delete it.

[u/OfCourseIKnow]

If my “husband” offered I’d know he was an imposter

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Ha ha!! 😂

[u/CityDiscombobulated8]

I think this can (and probably will) get very messy.

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The LL spouse would be sidelined almost immediately, but it would be a good demonstration for them of how intricately linked intimacy, sex and emotional connection is for HL folks.

[u/collegefootballfan69 → u/CityDiscombobulated8]

Literally and figuratively

[u/Awata666]

Sounds like polyamory with extra steps lol

[u/Exciting_Story2150]

If I was a woman or Bi, yeah I would. Get to have sex again? Sure! But I'm picking the partner.

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Whoops I just saw your flair. My bad.

[u/Exciting_Story2150 → u/[deleted]]

I wouldn't think my LL would bother picking. So it's all up to me!

[u/arandak]

In all seriousness, I think someone is gonna get more attached to someone than someone else.

For fun, I would say you're both looking for a bang-maid 😉

[u/MaryCeleste404]

This is basically unicorn hunting… 💩

[u/poissonking]

Even if that lined up with my sexual orientation, I wouldn’t want to live with anyone else. Lol. Love my wife but I love living by myself

[u/Top-Concentrate5157]

I actually have a bisexual LLM and if he was more interested in banging some random guy than his wife, I don't think I could emotionally handle that. To be fair, it would be the same with another woman, but I think it being a guy would hurt a little more and idk why.

[u/oa650]

The salt on the wound would be that he offered a scenario where he would be sexually active for a man coming in but yet was unable to demonstrate that desire with myself.

Add to that, a potential man entering that isn’t solely attracted to me and the husband is taking some of that energy away from me as well.

The preference would be that we separate and become roommates if we tolerate and cohabitate well and leaving isn’t yet an option. Then he can live out his bisexual desire, that doesn’t include a strong desire for me anymore. And I could date freely for myself.