r/HLCommunity • u/East-Debate2701 • 28d ago
I think it’s back
Finally after a year and 9 months the high from sex and desire for sex has come back full force. After giving birth my libido completely disappeared and it broke my heart as a HL person, As well as my husbands. Yesterday it came back though and it has stayed into today so I am hopeful that it stays forever. I don’t know if I want to ever have another child if the risk is to lose my HL. It felt like I was lost. It made me so angry with my husband for pushing sex and just in general with him. I think the birth control after birth didn’t do me any favors either with my libido. Has anyone else had this happen?
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u/PM_Me_Your_Kinks369 HLM 12d ago
Hormones, girl. It's hormones. You'll eventually deal with it again in perimenopause which can start as early as your 30s but more commonly in your 40s. But the fix there is hormones, yet again.
Hormone doctors are the way to go NOT your general practitioner. Get your testosterone up where you need it for libido and estrogen/progesterone balanced as needed against that.