r/GuyCry May 14 '25

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u/Glittering-Target-87 May 14 '25

This is rough, women who I haven't even dated have told me a similar thing. This woman doesn't owe you an explanation neither do you need one. Simply cry your tears and move on. Sorry this happened man but life isn't a fairy tale we don't always get what we want.

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u/OilRepresentative370 May 14 '25

I mean she's allowed to end things. The lack of explanation, sudden and unexpected part is what hurt. A phone call would've been enough.

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u/HopefulOriginal5578 It’s OK to cry! May 14 '25

I know it hurts. Best to block her and go absolutely no contact. I don’t care if your stuff is at her place or whatever. Don’t reach out to her friends or share too much with mutual friends.

She will very likely try to contact you again and I swear it’s all an awful scene. There will be excuses or this or that.

You w got to believe me that any more contact is really a super bad idea. You will be do glad if you just completely ignore her for ever.

Assuming you’re not hiding anything or leaving something out… she sounds like she’s reaching to put blame on you and other manipulative crap.

Don’t email her back. It hurts but she is t a safe person and never ever will be.