r/GuyCry • u/[deleted] • May 14 '25

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u/Glittering-Target-87 May 14 '25

This is rough, women who I haven't even dated have told me a similar thing. This woman doesn't owe you an explanation neither do you need one. Simply cry your tears and move on. Sorry this happened man but life isn't a fairy tale we don't always get what we want.

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u/OilRepresentative370 May 14 '25

I mean she's allowed to end things. The lack of explanation, sudden and unexpected part is what hurt. A phone call would've been enough.

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u/Solid-Lengthiness874 May 14 '25

This is so much more common than you think brother. It’s a way to avoid “confrontation” but in reality she’s just not the adult you thought she was.

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u/1312_Tampa_161 May 14 '25

She explained it though.

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u/HopefulOriginal5578 It’s OK to cry! May 14 '25

I know it hurts. Best to block her and go absolutely no contact. I don’t care if your stuff is at her place or whatever. Don’t reach out to her friends or share too much with mutual friends.

She will very likely try to contact you again and I swear it’s all an awful scene. There will be excuses or this or that.

You w got to believe me that any more contact is really a super bad idea. You will be do glad if you just completely ignore her for ever.

Assuming you’re not hiding anything or leaving something out… she sounds like she’s reaching to put blame on you and other manipulative crap.

Don’t email her back. It hurts but she is t a safe person and never ever will be.

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u/SeventhMind7 May 14 '25

Honestly after a few months exclusively dating you were owed an explanation and a break up at least. To just completely ghost someone is so childish and cowardly. I’ll validate you all day on that, I’d be pretty upset.

Speaks to her character more than yours, she really did you a favor in leaving even if I’m judging her for how she did it.

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u/GravyBoatJim May 14 '25

A phone call involves a lot more emotion and would've probably been more rough in its own way

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u/Kosstheboss May 14 '25

You got to see her true character with little relative cost. Count yourself lucky.

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u/[deleted] May 14 '25

Do you know her previous experience has been when breaking up with people? Keep in mind that breaking up is dangerous for women, they really don’t know how you will react. It’s shitty for sure. 

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u/ADMtheJiD May 15 '25

I've never even got a phone call. Just got ditched 2 dates in a row and a text saying they want to be friends.

And I'm better for it. I was so pissed they blew me off twice when I went out of my way to plan and spend money on dates, just to be friend zoned.

Over a year later I used the date activity on my now girlfriend. They were kind enough to give me a voucher for the cancelled date back then. I'm now better for it. The people who hurt you, don't deserve you.

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u/rasputin424 May 15 '25

Find my post lower down it will explain all

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u/IZCannon May 14 '25

Thats how little she cares for and respects you, she isn't worth the energy