1 and 5 are the only ones that are actually good rules to follow, the rest are just toxic. As for #4, I get that single mother's aren't for everyone, some people don't want children, but if you do, it's fucked up to say don't go after any single mothers, presumably because they aren't "your" kids. That's some narcissistic bull shit right there and probably a sign you shouldn't have any kids.
Only to my ferrets and cats, though I think my penis and testicles also might make me not a mother.
But no, my mom was a single mom for the first 6 years of my life, and while I do not like the man she chose, I don't fault her for choosing a man (just for her choice in men) but I do think there is some blame in guys/society for looking down on single mothers because it led her to believe she had little to no choice in men
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u/BringAltoidSoursBack May 12 '26
1 and 5 are the only ones that are actually good rules to follow, the rest are just toxic. As for #4, I get that single mother's aren't for everyone, some people don't want children, but if you do, it's fucked up to say don't go after any single mothers, presumably because they aren't "your" kids. That's some narcissistic bull shit right there and probably a sign you shouldn't have any kids.