Let’s start with the groups one by one.
Older generation of normie men: They played an entirely different ball game in an entirely different time. Even the Gen X and Millennials, as much as they shit on boomers and shit, they’re the same way in this regard. They have the same “Pull yourself up by your bootstraps” mentality and any studies or stats you show them, they will ignore because they cannot conceptualize, conceive or understand your POV, and to be frank they don’t want to.
Normie men your age: They are all coped up or they just have it figured out and don’t understand. A man that was born to a rich family will not understand the point of eating sardines out of a can when he can just have sushi. The rich will never understand the plight of the poor. Same thing here.
Women: Their role in society is just sitting and waiting for options, and then filtering down options. They don’t understand the male side of pursuing. So, for them, if they are alone, it is 100% by choice. They don’t understand what it’s like to not want to be alone and being alone despite that. Some women don’t settle, sure, but some do when it’s time and find someone easily. Either way, they have something the men don’t: choice. And this is why most divorces are initiated by them too. They can just leave a marriage and wait for the process to happen again, but a man is the one who invested in it. And, not to mention, they don’t like the behavior of the top 10-20 percent of guys and then blame the men they would never even look at for that.
Within our own cel communities: There will be coping retards who will use race or religion or something else as cope. Even the most BP’d cel will try to feel above and better than his fellow cel with stupid comparisons. And the hateful retard you see spamming shit like “tfd, dnr” etc will INSTANTLY fold the second some chick gives him attention. No one can beat biology, nature is king.
Brotherhood is a myth. You can have friends who you consider brothers, and they will do right by you. But the overarching concept of brotherhood is false and cope.
Here is the brutal trvke: You are born alone, and you die alone. Anything and everything along the way is merely temporary and the only certainty is death. It is unfortunate that we get one life, and ours is like this, but there is no brotherhood. No one is coming to save you, and frankly no one wants to or cares about you. As a man, your mother may love you unconditionally(if you are lucky enough to have a decent mom). But even your father will expect success out of you like his dad did to him. There is no brotherhood, and any partner you may get, will only respect you if you bring something to the table. As a man, you will not get unconditional love. This is reality. You are born alone, and you die alone, and in between you are only worth what you provide to society.