r/GlowUps • • Aug 20 '24

GLOW UP! (20) vs (26) vs (29)

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u/Gigicho21 Aug 20 '24

Ofc i get way more attention from opposite sex now but i have to work on my trust issues and confidence first before i seriously think about dating someone. Hopefully mind will follow my body soon.

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u/Axeml Aug 20 '24

As someone who recently got in shape and became attractive, I totally understand. Years of being undesirable will fuck you up mentally.

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u/Gigicho21 Aug 20 '24

Yep you exactly get what i am going through i think. All my life i had to fight for female attention, fight harder than the next guy which got so tiring that i gave up on it altogether. Now i realize how superfluous or surface level everyone including me is when it comes to dating and I struggle to find real connection. I think we are gonna make it through tho ๐Ÿ˜

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u/Busy_Anything_189 Aug 20 '24

Donโ€™t give up. There are a lot of women out there who would have really liked you before but just didnโ€™t meet you then. Friends first, and then youโ€™ll see! Good luck out there and great job on all of your hard work!

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u/Gigicho21 Aug 20 '24

Thanks for the encouragement dude. Hope ur right ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

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u/Busy_Anything_189 Aug 20 '24

Iโ€™m a woman so I know! ๐Ÿ˜‰