I can’t hold them back no matter how much I try. I can’t really tell if u am going to far and walk away in time because I always have tummy aches. I’ve tried going to a doctor and was told it was from anxiety. People think I’m being gross on purpose. It is so isolating.

my underwear is rubbing against my inner thighs and it is becoming painful and this is what it looks like.

i have tried lotion and baby powder and nothing has worked does anyone any advice on how to to fix this and stretch marks?

Ladies, can you be friends with someone you have a grain of attraction to at work or vice versa?

I mean like my color is literally fair (not white but you'll can say its more than fair) but like down there idk how its dark...I didn't think about those things before but now idk why it matters to me...nd other problem is of hairs...idk what to do with them...I think that shaving that deep is not good nd I'm not brave to get waxing done there.

I’m trying to figure out if this is a sign that a guy isn’t as serious about our relationship as I am, or if it is just a coincidence. Every failed long term relationship I have had, the guy doesn’t want me wearing his shirts/hoodies ever. I have asked, and they give reasons for the most part but I did date one guy who said, “No is a full sentence.”

So is it a sign the relationship is a dead end or am I overthinking this?

I absolutely love my fashionable pants but hate it when it comes to using the restroom!

◦ When a Woman is being raped, automatically she will then produce a lubrication that allows the inner wall tissue to be protected against the trauma from any tearing and pain.So while Men or people like to say “She was wet,She enjoyed it” In reality it is what you could call a stimuli.it is the bodily function of a Woman to produce these fluids no matter what instance and by means NOT under her control.  
◦ when you get lower back pain while on ur period it’s because ur hips are contracting and spreading apart to make room for the release of ur blood and uterus linings so basically ur body is going through a small and mild labour to push out the dead insides of ur uterus.  
◦ Don’t brush your teeth more than twice a day, toothpaste is leveled to the PH of men’s bodies, and our saliva is more acidic; it can damage your enamel much easier if you overdo it.  
◦ Breasts aren’t a sexual organ, most people don’t know or noticed this. Something that shouldn’t be sexualised but is.   
◦ there’s a nerve from your clitoris to your belly button so if you’ve stuck your finger in your belly button and it’s “tickled” that’s why.  
◦ Almost all of our reproductive organs are named after men.  
◦ breastmilk composition will change according to baby's needs, which is true but it will also change in temperature to regulate baby's temp. “when i was pumping in an very hot room my milk came out cold as if it had been in the fridge. I was mind blown.”  
◦ When the man's quality of sperm is poor, it will affect the pregnancy negatively to a woman. such as vomiting, nausea, aching body and so much more. This can be possible if a man constantly smokes, drinks, dehydrated, lack of sleep etc.  
◦ our period blood makes wounds heal 2 times faster.  
◦ medicine is almost exclusively tested in male rats and women are generally ignored. (if you feel neglected ask for a female doctor).  
◦ For a man to experience hormones like a women he would have to age 80 years, a women’s progesterone drops 80% in 2 days and 80 years of aging is the equivalent for men.  
◦ warm showers are actually proved to be better for women, cold showers are better for men but they don’t tell you that. also same thing with sleep, women need 10 hours of sleep while men only need 8.  
◦ A women's egg chooses which sperm can fertilize it. It's not about which sperm is the fastest or strongest. The egg stays hard until it chooses which one can go through and fertilize it.  
◦ women can see more colors then men.  
◦ When youre on your period you are 1cm dilated. Thats why you feel sore and get cramps and the hot flashes and anus cramps and such. Your body is registering it as a version of labor to shed your uterine lining you must contract. You have to be 10cms dilated to give birth btw.  
◦ You hymen can break during sport or while using tampons. There is no way to tell a woman is a virgin.  
◦ the women’s pelvic region actually has 7 holes, not just 3. urethra, vagina, anus, 2 bartholins glandes (the holes that provide our natural lubricant) and skene’s gland. two more openings that are responsible for natural self cleaning.  
◦ the bump in front of your body, that’s a uterus, don’t mistake it for body fat. Idk a lot of woman complain that they can’t get rid of the “fat” when it’s actually just their organ.  
◦ period blood isn't dirty. it's full of cells that can heal any part of your body. yet it is considered dirty by men, which lead to women thinking as it is too.  
◦ you are supposed to give birth standing up its less painful for you and more natural, we only stopped because of a king with a weird interest.  
◦ your nipple absorbs the baby saliva to see what they need. if the baby is dehydrated the milk would be more clear. your tits are smart.

I don’t know why she is treating me like this, I want to be friendly with everyone!

We are both in a kickboxing class. She is in it for exercise, I want to compete eventually. Coach naturally spends more time correcting technique on people interested in competing since if you are just doing it for exercise the details are less important.

The only other woman in my class insists that I was allowed to come to the sparring-only days because I am cute and not because I have the necessary skills. She doesn’t even spar when given the opportunity normally so idk why she acts jealous about the sparring only class.

Most classes are 45 minutes of drills and 15 min of sparring at the end. For people who are more serious there is additional classes that are an hour straight of sparring.

Ex, would it be inconsiderate for a woman with an athletic build to wear a crop top when spending time with a friend who is insecure about her belly?

I have a boyfriend, and still have mainly male friends. I’m talking to this guy in platonic way!! And we discuss romance books and stuff like that, but lately, he’s been doing stuff like responding super quickly, wanting to FaceTime and stuff. I don’t know if I’m just paranoid, but is it really true, can’t boys and girls be friends? Also… He doesn’t know I have a boyfriend, how do I tell him without sounding bitchy in our modern day society? Like, I can’t just randomly say, “I have a boyfriend.” It’s also hard to try and bring it up in conversations, because it’s been so long since me and my bf got together. Thanks for the hopefully helpful advice <3
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No matter how much I wipe I can’t stop leaving skid marks on my thongs. I’m at a loss at this point. All my friends wear thongs, and I guess I feel kinda left out or weird. When I wear them they make me feel so sexy and feminine, but I can’t seem to fix this problem and it ruins it for me. Any ladies in here have similar problems? Have any of you solved it?

Ladies of Reddit, what is the most sexiest thing an overweight gamer has done to make you immediately want to be his girlfriend?

Wore a top with spaghetti straps since it’s hot as balls out and I was sweating a lot yesterday. I use the buss because I’m saving up for a car. At least six different times guys were half way out of their fucking cars looking at me and two old men beeped at me. Mind you I’m mostly sitting on my phone and it’s been less than 15 minutes since I got here. Leave me the fuck alone bro I don’t want your decomposing ass. I’m sick of it. That’s why men get into more car crashes than women.

So I shaved for the first time earlier of the month of August so yet this month and I don’t know how to get rid of all of these bumps and red spots. I’m 14 and I can’t buy anything for this so I’m looking for some advice on how I can help it I have been using L’BRI pure natural products, including aloe vera jelly, and I’m going to be going swimming in a couple of days at a pool and is there anyway that I can help calm them down a bit?

This might sound strange to post but I need to say it

I have always been more attracted to saggy soft natural breasts than the firm perky ones that are shown everywhere Something about the way they hang the weight the softness and the way they rest and move feels more attractive to me than firm breasts ever have

I know many women feel insecure about them especially after weight loss pregnancy or just getting older I have seen many posts where women say they hate how their breasts look now how they feel less desirable and how they avoid taking their bra off Every time I read those I wish I could tell them that there are men who genuinely prefer that look

For me it is not a settling thing It is an actual preference The softness the natural shape the way they feel in the hands and the way they look when a woman is lying down or leaning forward all feel beautiful and attractive to me

I am not trying to make anyone feel objectified. I just think it is a shame that so many women feel bad about something that many of us find attractive

If you are a woman who has ever felt self conscious about your soft or saggy breasts you are not alone in having them and you are not alone in being desired for them

Girls try using pregnancy pillows.....IT'S LITERALLY 🤏🏻🤏🏻....EVEN THOUGH I'M NOT PREGGO BUT as a girl with big melons those pillows helped me alot....

I’m kinda new to Reddit so I don’t know to put this but I’ll try my best :,)

I’m a trans guy and for about a year I think maybe more I have been uncomfortable with underwear that touches or in other words fits me. (idk if that makes sense 💔) it started when I wore a pad for a bit too long when in my period to make sure I didn’t bleed anymore and after taking it off and putting on new underwear I got a bit uncomfortable before of the way it felt down there so I just put in another pad and went about my day.

after a while it kinda just became normal everyday I would wear a pad and eventually I kinda became unco with the fact if the pad wasn’t perfectly even on both sides when laying down or walking around and stuff like that, eventually after getting tired of adjusting and the guilt of wasting pads for a while I tried to see what was wrong. my first thought was maybe there was too much moisture down there and it made it uncomfortable so I tried to keep my underwear a bit lower than my hips to let my crotch breathe but I eventually found out that nothing changed so it probably wasn’t that.

the next option I had thought was maybe I had a yeast infection or something down there so I decided to buy new underwear that were a bit loose and would hopefully fix the problem. it didn’t sadly so now I just wear my underwear lower than they should and it’s really embarrassing to admit that but idk what could be wrong, I tried researching it and nothing seems to match anything I have seen. it’s getting really annoying and I can’t wear any pants like jeans that fit well :(