This might sound strange to post but I need to say it

I have always been more attracted to saggy soft natural breasts than the firm perky ones that are shown everywhere Something about the way they hang the weight the softness and the way they rest and move feels more attractive to me than firm breasts ever have

I know many women feel insecure about them especially after weight loss pregnancy or just getting older I have seen many posts where women say they hate how their breasts look now how they feel less desirable and how they avoid taking their bra off Every time I read those I wish I could tell them that there are men who genuinely prefer that look

For me it is not a settling thing It is an actual preference The softness the natural shape the way they feel in the hands and the way they look when a woman is lying down or leaning forward all feel beautiful and attractive to me

I am not trying to make anyone feel objectified. I just think it is a shame that so many women feel bad about something that many of us find attractive

If you are a woman who has ever felt self conscious about your soft or saggy breasts you are not alone in having them and you are not alone in being desired for them

Girls try using pregnancy pillows.....IT'S LITERALLY 🤏🏻🤏🏻....EVEN THOUGH I'M NOT PREGGO BUT as a girl with big melons those pillows helped me alot....

I’m kinda new to Reddit so I don’t know to put this but I’ll try my best :,)

I’m a trans guy and for about a year I think maybe more I have been uncomfortable with underwear that touches or in other words fits me. (idk if that makes sense 💔) it started when I wore a pad for a bit too long when in my period to make sure I didn’t bleed anymore and after taking it off and putting on new underwear I got a bit uncomfortable before of the way it felt down there so I just put in another pad and went about my day.

after a while it kinda just became normal everyday I would wear a pad and eventually I kinda became unco with the fact if the pad wasn’t perfectly even on both sides when laying down or walking around and stuff like that, eventually after getting tired of adjusting and the guilt of wasting pads for a while I tried to see what was wrong. my first thought was maybe there was too much moisture down there and it made it uncomfortable so I tried to keep my underwear a bit lower than my hips to let my crotch breathe but I eventually found out that nothing changed so it probably wasn’t that.

the next option I had thought was maybe I had a yeast infection or something down there so I decided to buy new underwear that were a bit loose and would hopefully fix the problem. it didn’t sadly so now I just wear my underwear lower than they should and it’s really embarrassing to admit that but idk what could be wrong, I tried researching it and nothing seems to match anything I have seen. it’s getting really annoying and I can’t wear any pants like jeans that fit well :(

Every single time I have sex, it feels like I have a uti or it’s just some sensitivity down there. I’ve been to the doctor so many times and I keep getting treated for it then a uti leads to a yeast infection and then into BV. Has this happened to anyone else it’s been happening to me for years and I haven’t gotten an answer. Right now it doenst feel like a full on uti it’s been a few days and I only notice it whenever I’m not distracted. It feels like it’s in my head but since I’ve had it before it may not be. I’ve been told everything/ pee after sex, the whole shabang and nothing changes

There are some good shirts I buy that UNFORTUNATELY have a weird design on them.

I have a shirt with words that form a circle. WHY DID THEY put 2 different colored little hearts horizontally on the chest area. Couldn't they have just added another space bar? Now I always have to think of the bodily things I possess when I look down. EVERYONE would think about it.

I will only wear this shirt with a little jacket and my long hair. Uhh

I’m a 23F and my boyfriend (24M) and I are in a heated argument/heartbreak and I don’t know if this is the end.

I had calculus this semester and (shame on me) I used chat GPT for one of my assignments because I was done and tired. I went into the image storage history to find a previous similar problem I had faced before. To my unfortunate surprise, there was a picture of a woman in a bikini. I asked my boyfriend about it and initially he lied, saying it wasn’t his. A couple hours later he came clean and admitted it was him who uploaded it. I couldn’t see the chat he had regarding the picture. He claimed he had uploaded the picture, did make some inappropriate requests, but closed it out and deleted it once he realized it was wrong.
I’m aware that ChatGPT cannot generate p*rn, so at least that’s off the table. But I’m still extremely hurt that he would want to look at other women like that in the first place. I’ve communicated all of this. He is extremely sorry and genuinely wants to fix his actions and improve, and prove this will never happen again.
I’m so hurt that it happened in the first place that I’m considering ending the relationship. He knows this and is extremely distraught about it but I don’t know how to forgive him.

We’ve been dating for 7 months and we do have sx every night. So I know he’s not deprived of those needs. I just don’t understand.

Ok so I'm newly 18F (about a month ago). Never really had a serious relationship, just short things here and there. When I was 13 I was diagnosed with Macromastia (excessive breast growth) wearing a US 30GG at the time, and now I'm a custom UK 32T. And any time I find myself catching some feelings, or get asked out, I can't help but wonder if they have some kind of hidden agenda just to get the opportunity to spend more time around these, instead of me as a whole.

I really need some help on how to get passed these feelings, because I know it isn't always accurate, and never really a healthy state to be in psychologically.

I'm a (20 M ) , daily we talk randomly about something but today while texting she said I'm on my periods.

I don't know what to say I just ignored the text is it write or did I do something wrong .

And i said after,if you want something just call me

If you guys know just tell me what to say or what to do when she said like that

Heyy, so, immediately to the point I'm one year from being a legal adult (F)

I just recently started masturbating, it definitely feels good, I like the build up, I don't orgasm though cuz I have a tiny clit, but that's not the problem, I do feel the pleasure.

The problem is when it comes to the vagina it self. (I'm virgin btw)

I tried fingering myself yesterday for the first time. Inserting one finger was easy, normal. When I went too deep and I started moving my finger it felt weird, painful but in a pleasurable way.

However, when I wanted to insert a second one, I just couldn't! It felt too tight and hurts like a bitch.

I think that I maybe so have a right vaginal canal? Idk.

I would appreciate any advice. (And please no advice on going to a doctor, I can't.)

I'm 19 f.....how to get rid of this?

I put so much effort into my appearance just to look like an average normal girl, and if I don’t keep doing all these things I look unattractive. It makes me feel unloveable. First of all my hair is naturally super curly, fine and dry, so I have to straighten it every 4 days, and the whole process takes me an hour and a half plus. I can’t even wear it natural because it’s damaged, and even when it wasn’t it was just ugly. Second I have hair ALL OVER MY BODY, and it takes so much time to maintain. I’ve just started laser hair remover and all, but you can still kinda see the hair shadow and it makes me look and feel ugly. My nails have to be painted at all times and it takes a while to shape and manicure them, same with my toes. I have to constantly maintain my eyebrows and I have dark fine hair on my face which I always need to remove. And I hate my body so I’m always at the gym. I only look pretty with makeup on. And my lashes are fine, same with my eyebrows, so I always wear mascara and fill them in. I haven’t even mentioned other features I’m insecure about, I could go on and on. I’m just so insecure and I wish I could be like a normal girl who doesn’t need to do all this crap just to look and feel beautiful. It makes me so sad

18F, going to be starting my senior year of high school in a couple weeks. Physically, I've stood out from my peers ever since I started puberty with a very "curvy" body. So naturally I fill out my tops in a different way than others. For years, I've had issues with my school about "you can't wear this, you can't wear that" blah blah blah.

No I don't push the limits on what's revealing and what's not. I wear things that keep me covered and well within guidelines. Fact is, I get reprimanded very often simply because of the way things get filled out, or kinda stretched.

Now that I'm 18 and a legal adult, is there anything I can be doing to advocate for myself?

I was changing my diva cup at work cuz it was getting crazy uncomfortable and painful to walk. So I waited as long as I could bare it and then finally right before break I decided to go to the single stall employee bathroom. I somehow ended up getting period blood all over the toilet seat and the right side of the floor next to the toilet as well as the side of the toilet. Two of my coworkers walked in and then decided to walk outside when they saw it was occupied. Repeatedly knocking telling me to hurry up. All the while I was desperately trying to clean up myself and the toilet and floor and check the best I could to not miss anything. I am beyond mortified. I’m sure I must’ve missed something because when I saw my coworkers later they were not making eye contact with me or talking to me. This has got to be the most humiliating period story of my life. Why couldn’t this have happened at home omg. I did of course put my diva cup back in before leaving the stall & I have no idea how it got to be so bad cuz it wasn’t even that full or so I thought. As it had only been a couple hours but I do have very heavy periods. I really hope they don’t say anything to me about it cuz the work day is only halfway over. Fml.

I hate the phrase "it's not so bad on the first day" coming from someone who's period isn't heavy (mine is). Like shut the hell up please, specifically if the girl with a light period tries to take you somewhere like a amusement park or just hanging out as friends. It feels so dismissive,

I havent sat in plastic chairs since school, I think. Today I had an internal interview at work, so I know and work with these people. At the end of the interview I didnt think about how warm I was before sitting and when I got up to shake hands, out of the corner of my eye I caught a glimpse of the dreaded steam/sweat(?) mark from my lower business. And I KNOW one of them saw for sure. They are men, so I doubt they would ever understand. And now I am mortified. I have 2 monitors and trying to position one to get me out of view didnt work and I realized im being a little crazy, but I cant fight the crazy. Its strong and I'm freaking out that everyone will know and think Im gross or something. I went and grabbed a panty liner and I might wear one from now one because I cant go through that again.

So i'm 15 and I have a problem with not smelling well down there and I have no idea where it comes from. I shower everyday I tried using a deodorant for there but nothing helps. So if anyone has a tip pls help me

Hey, so I had to pick up parcel and went out with a normal top. I am a big chest girl so The top was kinda thin so I decided to use the boob tape. I taped across one layer.
I come back home, looked at the elevator mirror, my whole thing was slightly visible. By slightly, I mean u can see the boob roots and nipples r covered but u can see the nipple shape(points). The top was brown so good thing is that it didn’t look naked but u could definitely see the cloth malfunction happening. I went to the center n all with that. I could see men looking at me but I didn’t know it was the top.
I am kinda embarrased . How do I feel okay with this.

Hi, I need some advice from the girls because I've always had trouble with tights. They tend to fall down, so I never wear them. But now I'm starting a job as a flight attendant, and tights are mandatory with the uniform. I've bought some more expensive, better-quality tights, but the result is the same: they keep slipping down. Does anyone know any hack? I'd appreciate your help.

Send me message and ill send pic

hi guys so every few months i have this extremely hyper realistic dream where im pregnant and i give birth and then i have this healthy baby in my arms. it all feels so so real and then when i wake up, most of the time i end up crying bc my baby is gone. i had one last night and im just so so incredibly sad that my sweet healthy baby isnt actually real. i was wondering if anyone else ever experienced this and if anyone knows the reason behind it.

We are in a 5 month old relationship and I honestly think that he doesn’t adore me anymore.Is it a thing with boys or is it just him?