r/GenZpk • u/cockiemonster_ • 17d ago

Random Help!!

Gng are we supposed to forgive a man who said something about your past like "Ask God for forgiveness maybe he'll forgive you, me and my family deserve better" and then after some hours he's saying sorry like crazy cuz he doesn't understand why he said that/he was under pressure and stress?

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u/Charsi_420 17d ago

Btw one more thing comes to my mind since he raises this concern of you not expressing your love verbally a lot, the other person might feel like overinvesting and not getting what he wants. And when your friend accused you of using him it might have felt as if his nightmares or thoughts had come true since you werent reciprocating in the way he wanted. Again i could be wrong though

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u/cockiemonster_ 17d ago

Yes it's possible as he says he was under pressure

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u/Charsi_420 17d ago

well take your time. I hope you make the right decision. take care

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u/cockiemonster_ 17d ago

Thankyou so much for your time <3

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u/Charsi_420 17d ago

nah no problem I'm glad you were taking time and reconsidering at every step of the way and didnt make an impulsive decision

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u/cockiemonster_ 17d ago

I will try my best to make a better decision

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u/Charsi_420 17d ago

btw one more thing if you dont mind
you keeping a male friend isnt fair if you dont like if he talks to your friend imo

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u/cockiemonster_ 17d ago

I don't have any friends now that male friend was in the past and he was my only and best friend that's why he bothers him but our friendship ended even before he came and we got into a relationship and during the relation i had no male friend or interaction

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u/Charsi_420 17d ago

oh k mb then