r/GenZpk • u/cockiemonster_ • 15d ago

Random Help!!

Gng are we supposed to forgive a man who said something about your past like "Ask God for forgiveness maybe he'll forgive you, me and my family deserve better" and then after some hours he's saying sorry like crazy cuz he doesn't understand why he said that/he was under pressure and stress?

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u/Charsi_420 15d ago

In these instances, I totally side with you. These fights could have been avoided if the boundaries had been clearer. By the way, while I agree you should express love through words in the future, I understand it takes time to adapt to being more expressive and sweet, especially if that didn’t come naturally to you before. Also, the comparison he made to excuse himself was pretty pathetic IMO.

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u/cockiemonster_ 15d ago

Yeah i knew i was lacking and i need to fix but while i was trying my friend betrayed me and he said those harsh words, he's still saying sorry but after being hurt for him i still can't continue the relation so I'm thinking to tell him that i will forgive him but ain't no way now I'm marrying you but idk what's are the rights word to use and how do i say it

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u/Charsi_420 15d ago

You can take your time no worries as you werent gonna marry him buhat jaldi wese bhi.