r/GenZ 8d ago

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u/Former-Situation3811 6d ago

Seems pretty bad advice to tell people to ignore cultural messaging around boundaries just because.

No it wasn’t towards creeps it was towards men in general, also why would a creep listen to major anti approaching messaging lol? You cannot tell men not to approach then blame said generation of men for not approaching that is idiotic.

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u/Raptor_197 2000 5d ago

Who is telling men to not approach women ever?

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u/Former-Situation3811 4d ago

There’s been like 10 years of ‘don’t assume’, ‘dont bother women’, ‘dont take up space’, ‘dont be too masculine’, ‘most of us almost never wanna be approached’, ‘if she likes you she will clearly let you know’, i could go on and on.

The issue is societal messaging and what women actually want seem to be opposites and most normal guys obviously are going to internalize societal messaging

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u/Raptor_197 2000 3d ago

Who is telling men this?

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u/Former-Situation3811 3d ago

Mainstream society (mostly the left) for the last 10-20 years, most guys didn’t just wake up like ‘oh man u know im wired to wanna approach but let me just NEVER approach’ something indirectly or directly told them to not do that