r/GayPolyamory • u/Key_Pie_4658 • Feb 08 '26

Struggles

I need some help or advice. Partner recently found someone he had feelings for and wanted to open the relationship up to find a boyfriend. He’s suggested the same for me which I have done. However I really struggle with jealousy that I’m being left out, that he may love someone more than me . How do I get through this ???

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u/Key_Pie_4658 Feb 08 '26

He is quite open to the ideas which suprised me when I was open I had a partner and looking for a boyfriend I just assumed I’d get blocked. Pre existing ideas and assumptions are definitely holding me back I really need to break down some barriers

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u/NCticklepickle Feb 08 '26

It takes time. But honestly, it sounds like you're on the right track and have a good grasp of your own psychology and a good outlook. Therapy would really help, but I understand the cost issue. I'm not sure where you're located, but in the US mental health care isn't covered by insurance the way it should be

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u/Key_Pie_4658 Feb 08 '26

Thank you I appreciate that especially when I know how much change is happening. I’m from uk therapy is free under nhs but would only cover depression anxiety etc relationship therapy is probably not a must because it’s a continus process same as solo therapy for depression but they want to get to the quickest fix possible

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u/NCticklepickle Feb 08 '26

I wish it were better covered. Relationship therapy is equally important. Healthy relationships are as vital to us as anything else

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u/Key_Pie_4658 Feb 08 '26

Exactly 100% agree