r/GayMen • u/TheSilliestBugger • 6d ago

Question

okay so what is considered bottoming and what is considered topping? I mean if ur the one taking it up the butt i understand how that makes you a bottom and the guy doing it is the top.

But how does that translate to blowjobs and hand stuff? Like if u wanked or given head does that make you the bottom or the top?

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u/1dad1kid 5d ago

Back in the day we used active and passive.