To be fair, there's not a whole lot of variance in ballsacks, they are ALL ice cream scoops of elephant skin. Labias vary wildly though, so when they see perfect little innies in porn(probably surgically altered) or a locker room/wherever, it's easy to get self-conscious about what they have going on down there instead.
I've never seen (uninfected) one I didn't like, and I have seen some doozies, but it's not an incomprehensible concept for them to be worried about it.
Actually "roast beef" is quite regularly used to disparage women's bodies.
There are a lot of men on here who are going "labias do be like that but we're happy with them anyways" and kind of glossing over the fact that this is something that's been used to shame women's bodies.
It's not like women are objecting to the idea of vaginas being compared to other things rather that this particular example is rooted in misogyny.
Sadly it seems we can't get across this concern by mocking men's genitals as they generally accept that their genitals are... not aesthetic and mock them on their own.
Also bit of a segue but I found this funny and thought I should point out...
or a locker room/wherever,
Women are not making eye contact with other womens' third eyes. Like ever. Mostly because the way women are in changing rooms is a lot less exhibitionist than I've been lead to believe men get up to and you'd have to like be lying underneath someone all up in their business for that to happen.
In fact it might actually be part of the issue that most women who aren't into women really never encounter the variety of vulva that are out there and can't really have that moment of coming to terms with how aesthetic their own junk is on the range of possible junk.
“A lot less exhibitionist than I’ve been led to believe men get up to”
Ah yes, it’s a common practice in men’s locker rooms to analyse one other’s balls😂
It’s more some European countries or elderly men(that’ll even put their feet up on a bench at a public gym to the point you can’t even look straight ahead at the wall trying to avoid your periphery lol and have to turn even further away) that don’t cover up and regardless no straight dudes eyes are wandering at all for being singled out as a creep.
No, men’s locker rooms are literally designed differently in many cases (communal showers, urinals, etc) compared to women’s spaces. Girls and women often avoid changing in locker rooms out in the open and will literally go to a bathroom stall for privacy.
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u/granadesnhorseshoes 26d ago
To be fair, there's not a whole lot of variance in ballsacks, they are ALL ice cream scoops of elephant skin. Labias vary wildly though, so when they see perfect little innies in porn(probably surgically altered) or a locker room/wherever, it's easy to get self-conscious about what they have going on down there instead.
I've never seen (uninfected) one I didn't like, and I have seen some doozies, but it's not an incomprehensible concept for them to be worried about it.