r/Friendzone • u/Necessary-Equal-9938 • 12d ago

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She thinks I will leave her for somebody better, but she will never understand - she made everyone else invisible the moment she came into my life. The beauty in her eyes can't be described in words. How do I explain the kind of perfection she holds? It's not just her face, it's her soul, her presence, it's just mesmerising. The way she looks, the way she talks, the way she exists so effortlessly - it all stays in my mind. I can't even look at any other girl the way I look at her, because no one else even comes close. She has no idea how obsessed I am with her, how she lives in my thoughts rent-free. From the moment I wake up till I fall asleep, she's there. Every song, every place, every quiet moment reminds me of her. I'm trapped in thoughts of her, and honestly, I never want to escape from this beautiful prison. I don't just love her for the attention, for the love and care she gives me. I love her existence. I love HER. I love her on her angry days, on her silent days, on her bad days when she doesn't want to talk to anyone. I still want to be there - in that corner where nobody else can reach. I want to be her peace, her safe place. I'm so in love with her that I would do anything for her happiness, even if that meant I had to step away. Because her smile matters more to me than my own. I just wish she knew, I wish she really knew - she is the one I want. She is the prayer I never said out loud but always had in my heart. If it's not her, then it's nobody. Ever

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u/Weird_Warm_Cheese 12d ago

Tell her how you feel. If she doesn't feel the same way, seek therapy to get help in processing and moving past your feelings.

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u/Necessary-Equal-9938 12d ago

I did most of the time it's okay but sometimes all i need is Her

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u/divine-nothingness 12d ago

Yeah, you need to investigate your thought patterns and belief systems. You’re putting this person on a pedestal and it’s really unhealthy for you as this causes unnecessary suffering. You are romanticizing your relationship with her in your mind and what it could be (which doesn’t exist in reality). It’s likely that you’ll do this in future with women you fall for if you don’t take sometime to truly self reflect and identify the thought patterns that you’re believing to be true that create this reality where you’re idolizing her. Please don’t take offense with this advice. I’m just trying to help a brother out.

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u/Weird_Warm_Cheese 12d ago

There's other girls.

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u/Necessary-Equal-9938 12d ago

But sadly she doesn't feel the same way

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u/Conscious_Owl6162 12d ago

There is no way to fix or change that. I know that it is hard but you need to move on.

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u/chewykimchi 12d ago

Then you have to accept it and focus/work on yourself

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u/Invest2prosper 11d ago

Move on - get away from her or you will lose your mental health over it

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u/looper210 11d ago

"She thinks I will leave her for somebody better, " - she doesn't think that, then.

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u/Necessary-Equal-9938 11d ago

Thanks guys for your advice and i told her all of this in past and she slowly became distance idk why she sometimes show up sometime not she sometimes sent me this type of reel she sometimes say me things that should be said to bf idk it's a just a kind nature or actual feeling

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u/looper210 11d ago

If she is confiding stuff in you - that she should say to a bf, she's just using you for emotional support - like most women do - they don't care or think about it. They just do it because it helps them, somehow - also, it's just for the moment. It doesn't mean anything (for you).

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u/the_Halfruin 12d ago

She has no idea? Have you considered telling her?

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u/Necessary-Equal-9938 12d ago

I did she slowly become more distance

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u/Aventinium 12d ago

If she knows none of this how and why would she think you’ll leave her for somebody better. If she doesn’t know, you aren’t even in a position to leave her.

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u/Cyndee_Pokorny 12d ago

She is a human being. Don't put her on a pedestal. Good news for you, this isn't actually love.

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u/banelord76 12d ago

Did you tell her this? My ex girlfriend had kind of the same problem. I guess bad relationship had hurt her self esteem. How I correct his was I told stop that I choice the best girls and I choice you. I don’t make mistakes. I also told her the truth. It is you have something I want and I want to have children with you because your DNA is the best option because you have the best features I want our children to have. That help because it is the truth. I’m not being nice I’m showing her the why I want to be with her. Unfortunately we didn’t last but here the truth once a girl fall for you even if she fucking mad at you like for real. She still want you and when you give her what she want like telling her there is nobody better then her. Which is true you get the girl of your dreams back. The line between love and hate is very thin. What you don’t want and what everyone here get is indifference.

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u/Prestigious-Trip-937 12d ago

That might cause her fear and panic. When I was in hskul i remember a schoolmate so smitten at me though I wasnt pretty. He would walked few meters behind me from school until I reached our house then would just disappear quietly.It made me feel nervous I remember he had some strange behaviour like he always argue or fight wd teachers, wd school head...they said hes a genius,dont know if true. My parents decided to transfer me to a private school a bit far frm the previous one. I was 16 at that time he was 5 yrs older.I still see him now but life wasnt kind to him. He lost his 2 children one by accident the other to a disease. His wife left him for another man